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Hi girls only thing I can tell u that be a dom fem and enjoy ur life as a queen. I feel I am a queen only because I found my slave on femdom.dating.

well I dont know from where to start as i am not a story writer. I shall say some thing about me. Me a degree holder in nursing & works in NY.  My mother, sis and me also domfem. But I didnt get an oppurtunity for the one in NY. I was jelous to my mom as she was like a queen and my dad a fetish slave. Me and my sis used to peep to moms room to see bondage in our childhood. We slept most of d day by hearing my dads cry and mom's laughter. She was verimuch satiesfied with her slave.so she gave me advice how to take control over men and the only formula is sex and pain.

I started dating on femdom.dating for a sub.I follwed her words with him. first i refused sex with them for about 2 weeks. then he started to beg for my sex. then i told him to do what ever i say and he agreed. on that time i made him as child who do everything for a toy. i orderd him to stripp off and to show his body close to me. he is so hot and his **** started to hard as a rock& my ***** was getting wet and wet, but i didnt showed dat in my face. I humiliated him by claiming his disqualities of his body. I started throwing utter bad words on him and he was red faced and finaly in an angry mood i slapped on his face hard. then he started to plede for for something. I asked him to dance and i started him harassing him again with words. he was keep on pleeding and i gave my foot lick and suck. during his sucking i was slapping and pinching him . I noticed that he was enjoying my each touch, so keep on suck my legs for hours....

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How to find female domination (Femdom)

You want to be dominated by a Domme?

Finding a like minded partner can be a pain in the ass (the kind you don't like).

Well, I'll try to help you a bit with this artice.

Mainly there are two different types of initiating contact.

1. - Real Life search

2. - Online search
Real Life search



Beginners often are to shy to go to a BDSM-group especially if they don't have any friends in "the scene". This applys to the majority.

People in "the scene" are folks like you and me. Be nice to them and they will help you.

If you're still not interested to join the BDSM scene there's a different, comfortable way to get in touch with dominant women. InsiderWear.com sells T-shirts which kind of attract dominant women. The idea behind is to discretly announce your femdom fantasies by wearing those Tees and get contacted by dominant women on the street, at the gym or anywhere else.


Following shirts are pretty subtle. You could wear those for work as well.


The other (very common but also often very nerve-racking) way is the
Online search

Demonstrate why you're different.







Before looking for a Domme, you need to decide for yourself what makes you different. If you've taken the trouble to sit in a channel and slowly get involved with it, at some point, someone will ask you about yourself. This is a key moment in your search for a Domme, so use it wisely. Here are some of the classic errors that are made at this point:




Your comment:


the domme's thoughts:


I'm very submissive.

Big deal, so are all submissives.


I do exactly what I'm told.

Well yes.. and?


I'll do anything for the right Mistress.

This one is desperate!


I'm excellent at pleasuring my Mistress

Oh, ok... he's desperate for a fuck.


I'm rich with my own Penthouse suite.

He's a desperate liar.


I'm available for the right Domme!

Totally clueless and arrogant.


I'm 23, very fit and highly intelligent.

Still totally clueless and stupid.


I'm looking for a Domme!

You're a male sub, of course you are.


None of those approaches will work. We see it every night. What makes much more sense is to assume that we know you're submissive, that you'll do as you're told and all that jazz. So don't tell us, move swiftly onto something about you that's interesting. What hobbies do you have? What skills have you got? What makes you an interesting human being? The fact that you're a sub isn't interesting. We know that already. There are very interesting male submissives - I know lots of them, as do the rest of us. But they are interesting because they are people who happen to be submissive. Do you see the difference? I really hope so! Don't continue whittering on about it. If people are interested, they'll ask you about it. If they do, congratulations, you've moved onto the next stage in your search.


FINDING A DOMME IS A LONG TERM PROCESS - IT WILL NOT HAPPEN OVERNIGHT.


If you come into a chat room expecting to find a Domme who will come around and visit you the same evening or the next day to beat you senseless, just leave the room right now and go to #bdsm_stupidly_optomistic. After all - why should a Domme want to? She's probably already got a sub she can phone up and say 'drive over here now, I am in the mood to whack you'.
So just leave it. Don't push it, and don't expect anything to happen tonight. Or tomorrow night. Or this week. Or probably this month. I'm really sorry - I know that you're desperate - it's clear for all to see, and there's nothing that is more off-putting than a desperate submissive. It's not pretty and it's not attractive.