Why Every Woman Should Dominate Her Relationship

Female Supremacy

Sounds like a scary term for radical feminists who hate men. Nothing could be further from the truth according to Elise Sutton, the often debated and elusive firecracker of the BDSM world who teaches couples how to actively engage in a dynamic she calls- Female Led Relationships.

What is a female led relationship? It is a romantic relationship where both parties are NOT equal and men willingly admit their inferiority and defer to the woman’s will. They both enjoy this dynamic as she uses her intellect and feminine power to lead the relationship toward success. The woman should dominate her relationship if it is to become a relationship of pleasure and progress.

Elise Sutton offered me the opportunity to learn more about the unique relationship model she presents in her website Female Superiority.Com. ~ Te-Erika

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Do you believe all women have a dominant side to their personalities?

I view dominance, when it comes to relationships, as more of a mindset and an attitude than a
personality trait. We are what we think we are. I know a lot of women that are quiet, reserved
and rather laid-back who are the dominant partner in their marriage. So to me, dominance has
nothing to do with temperament but it has everything to do with attitude. Therefore, I believe
that any woman can assume the dominant role in her marriage or any personal relationship. And
furthermore, I believe women should be the dominant partner within male/female relationships.
Why? Because women are best equipped biologically and intellectually to be the head of the
household.

Over the centuries, society has mistaken the softness and the gentleness of women for weakness
and submission. Likewise, society has mistaken the aggressiveness and the macho ways of men
for strength. But by in large, men are only stronger physically. Women possess the real strength,
which is intellectually, emotionally, spiritually, and sexually. Unfortunately, most women do not
realize this due to being programmed by patriarchal institutions that teach women are the weaker
sex. However, we live in a day where knowledge abounds and studies have shown that women
are in fact biologically and intellectually superior to men.

In my book, “Female Domination” I devote an entire chapter to the superiority of women. I cite
academic research that demonstrates women are intellectually superior to men. For example, The
Scientific Assembly and Annual Meeting of the Radiological Society of North America did a
study that showed that while the male brain is, on average, approximately ten percent larger than
the female brain, women actually have a larger corpus callosum, 55.4 percent vs. 50.8 in men.
Men listen with only one side of their brains, while women use both. Thus women do better in
memory tests and women have better language and communication skills. Women have excelled
in the college classroom thus almost 60% of all college degrees have been earned by women
over the past decade.



Biologically, women have better senses (smell, touch, taste, and sight). Women tolerate pain the
best. Pound for pound, women are in fact stronger thus men are physically stronger only because
of their overall size advantage. Women have greater flexibility and endurance. Women, as a rule,
eat healthier. Girls mature faster than boys. Women are less susceptible to most diseases and
women live longer. The research is clear, men and women are not equal and women are not the
weaker sex.

I was out in front of this going back to the 1980’s when I first discussed how society is slowly
and methodically evolving from male dominance to female dominance, and it is very satisfying to see so many today reaching a similar conclusion. I have in my private collection over 500 articles written in the past ten years that talk about the superiority of women and how it’s becoming a woman’s world. Articles with such titles as: “The End of Men” (Atlantic Weekly), “It’s a Woman’s World, the phasing out of men” (National Review), and “The incredible shrinking Y (chromosome)” (New York Times).

Women have become the main decision makers within marriages as more and more women
are in charge of the checkbooks and the bank accounts. Women are becoming the main
breadwinners in many families, and even in families where the husband has a higher income it is
the wife who makes the financial decision.

I also believe women are sexually dominant by nature. Again, when I say “dominant” I do not necessarily mean aggressive. While more women are choosing to be more sexually aggressive with their male partners, some dominant women prefer to be sexually passive in bed with a man. Be that as it may, the woman who understands how males and females are sexually designed will be able to take control in the bedroom using her natural feminine power.

Men are often led by their lower heads and the smart woman is the woman who learns how to utilize the male sex drive to her advantage. Too many women become victims of the male sex drive instead of taking control of it via the power Nature has bestowed on the female gender. And then there is also the biology of the female orgasm vs. the male orgasm, which is a fascinating study itself. I often tease my husband that sex was designed for the woman’s pleasure, not the man’s pleasure, and the male orgasm can never measure up to the intensity and pleasure of a woman’s orgasm(s) once she comes into her sexual prime.

So all of these reasons are why the female should be the dominant partner. It really doesn’t
equate to aggressiveness, although the University of Michigan recently did a study that showed
that estrogen is more of a power fuel than testosterone.
Why is it beneficial for women to recognize these traits?

I believe a female-led relationship makes for a happy relationship. Too many people strive for a
50/50 relationship and then wonder why life is so stressful. A 50/50 relationship sounds good in
theory, after all we should all strive for equality. But 50/50 means there is no decision maker and
everything must be negotiated. That doesn’t work because at the end of day, someone must yield
their opinion and their wants to the other person’s opinion and wants. There must be a hierarchy
in any structure, be it a corporation, a business, the military, the government, the Church, you
name it, there always has to be authority, else there is chaos.

The female contains the attributes best fitted to be in authority within a marriage or a male/
female relationship. Women are the gender with the womb, the child-bearers, the life-givers, thus
the nurturers and the gender best able to see the big picture and make decisions for the collective
good. Women are by nature more kind-hearted. Combine this with the biological and intellectual

strengths of the female gender, and it is foolish for any woman to surrender control of her life
over to a man. 50/50 is better than male dominance but female dominance is best of all as it is
able to bring harmony to a relationship.
Why would a man want to be a part of a female led relationship?

In many ways, men are further along in their desire to be dominated by women than women are
in their desire to be the dominant gender. However, this common male desire usually has its
incubation in the sexual realm. I remember a survey from the 1990’s where the number one male
sexual fantasy was the fantasy to be sexually dominated by a woman. And this common male
desire correlates with the explosion of the profession of the Dominatrix that we saw in the 1990’s
and 2000’s. Men could not get their female partners to dominate them sexually, so they sought
out the professional Dominatrix. Back in 2005 I did research using nothing but the Internet and
I recorded over 10,000 women who had websites advertising their services for professional
domination. Think about that? And it all wasn’t just about sex. Many Dominatrices offered
physical domination, domestic domination, forced feminization, financial domination, sexual
domination, humiliation, and other forms of controlling a paying male client.

Why do so many men want to be dominated by women? As I wrote in my book, “Female
Domination”, based on my years of study, observation and participation, I have learned that
there are sexual and social reasons why men have submissive desires toward women. I have
discovered that a man’s core nature expresses itself first in the sexual realm through different
sexual desires. To the novice, a man that desires to be on the bottom during intercourse is normal
but a man who desires to be spanked or whipped by a woman is perverted. However, I have
come to understand that both of these fore mentioned desires stem from the same core desire.
It may be expressed differently but it is the same deep-rooted motivation. And what is that
motivation?

The common thread to all these sexual and submissive desires is the longing for loving female
authority. To me, that is the true definition of Female Domination. Female Domination is Loving
Female Authority. That is what most men are seeking from the female gender. All of these
specific fetishes or desires are the outward expressions of a man’s need and hunger for loving
female authority.

There is a natural born desire within most men that causes them to desire to be dominated by
a woman. I believe that males are born with this desire and I also believe that this desire is
enhanced through a male’s childhood experiences with his female authority figures. A male is
carried in the womb of a woman, he is birthed into this world by a woman, he is nurtured at
the breasts of a woman, he is disciplined by the loving hands of a woman, and he is loved and
comforted by a woman. The male gender learns early on that there is something special, almost
magical, about the female gender. She is different than he is. She is lovely, beautiful, caring, and
nurturing. In some men, this revelation only gets stronger as he matures. He realizes that being under the loving authority of a woman is what gives his life a peaceful and meaningful existence.

After puberty, the testosterone takes over and boys will be boys, thus aggression, violence and
the primitive hunting instinct is prevalent. However, there is always the female, the mysterious
female that calls out to males for civility, community and family. Men have tried to rule but for
a lot of them it is a most frustrating proposition. The inner male nature longs to be back under
female authority, and I believe that is what drives the desire for female domination within so
many of them.
How can a woman learn to become more dominant in her life?

Women are romantics at heart and most women contemplate love and romance from the time they enter adolescence. The patriarchal system has preyed upon and manipulated the female desire for romance by equating romance with marriage and equating marriage with male dominance and female submission. This family model became the societal model because of a flawed logic which reasons that since the female is the nurturer and the male is the hunter, the woman’s place must surely be in the home.

Much like a person who does not exercise a limb on their body, the inner dominance of the
female went limp from a lack of exertion and application. For centuries women bought into a
societal model that sounded good on the surface but was flawed because the female possessed
the inner nature that was designed to be in charge. Nature would not implant the responsibility of
the guarantors of life with the weaker sex. The hunters are not superior but rather they work for
the guarantors. Brawn can bully and intimidate but brawn works for brains. Being the protector,
the hunter, and the helpmate is a critical and vital role but only as it works in harmony with the
life-giver, the guarantor, the nurturer, and the one in authority, which is the female.

Nature is patient and Nature evolves as it corrects errors and strives for perfection. Society is
evolving and the male desire for loving female authority cannot be ignored or overcome. Now
the submissive nature of man is seducing and unleashing the previously dormant dominant
nature of woman. I believe the Genie is now out of her bottle, the flood gates have been opened
and there will be no turning back.

However, we live in a transition time and the woman who desires love and romance and who
was reared with the values of the patriarchal system will have a tough time understanding and
comprehending the concept of female domination. That is why it is important for the man who is
driven by his submissive nature to slowly seduce the woman’s dominant nature by demonstrating
the natural application of female domination through appealing to her need for love and
romance. After all, submission is really about servitude and worship, and servitude and worship,
when broken down, are about intimacy, adoration and romance.

So to answer your question, I would recommend the following tips if a woman wants to unleash
her dominance and attract a man that is open to a female led relationship:

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1) Self-image

A woman should begin to view herself as the dominant and superior female that she is. This means that a woman should never settle for any man that does not treat her like a Queen. Expect a man to worship you and revere you. Do not settle for macho males who think they are God’s gift to women. Seek out a man who wants to support you in your life goals, who is open to doing housework and chores for you and who realizes he is blessed to be in a relationship with you. He doesn’t have to be a soft male or a feminine male (unless that is what you want) but he must have that submissive heart.

There are more men out there that want to be submissive to women than you can imagine. Most do not express it publicly out of fear of being harassed by other men. But deep inside, they are attracted to bold, confident women who walk with a dominant demeanor. And how do you get that demeanor? It comes back to your attitude. Believe you are a dominant woman worthy of male submission and you will become a dominant woman. And how does one develop such a belief? You will become in life the books your read and the people you associate with. I had to learn this. I had to cut myself off from people who tore me down. And I had to be mindful of the kinds of books I read (and television shows that I watched). I read books that increase my self-image. Like right now, I am reading Suzanne Somers’ “The Sexy Years”. I am always trying to better myself.

2) Unleash your female sexual power

I know some feminists hate this advice but I really believe in it and it has done wonders for me and a lot of women I have counseled. How we look on the outside does reflect how we feel on the inside. Any woman of any age and any body type can radiate sexuality. In this day and age there are so many resources available to women. I am not a thin woman and I am no longer a young woman but when I go out, I dress and carry myself like the sexual woman I believe that I am. I have learned how to dress, which hair styles make me look younger, and which cosmetics work best for me. I eat right, I exercise and for a woman in my mid to late 50’s, I still like to believe I ooze dominance and sexuality. I love to wear leather clothing because a lot of submissive men have a real leather fetish. A pair of leather pants or a leather skirt can make me feel extra sexy and powerful. So I seek to dress sophisticated and sexy.

Remember the show “What not to wear”? I used to love that show because it would show any woman how she should dress to highlight her individual assets. I also sought out and found a salon where the women were knowledgeable and helpful. I wasn’t afraid to ask for advice when it came to my hair and cosmetics. I only use natural products but there are so many options out there. And as much as I love to eat, I became knowledgeable on that as well. I eat right and exercise because it makes me feel better about myself, and when I feel good about myself, I walk in that and others can sense it. I am bold and dominant as a woman and how I look on the outside lets the world know how I feel on the inside. My attitude attracts men who want to submit to me.

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3) Be willing to experiment with Dominance & Submission in the bedroom with your partner

One of the good things to come out of the “Fifty Shades of Grey” craze is that it introduced a lot of women to BDSM (or I prefer to call it D&S). I desire to be the dominant sex partner so I didn’t care for the book (I like to read erotica where women sexually dominate men).

However, the book did open women up to the concept of what some might call ‘kinky sex’. This is good because one reason so many relationships fail due to infidelity is because regular sex becomes boring after a while. People need new and exciting but you don’t necessarily need ‘someone’ new if you are willing to try ‘something’ new. I get lots of letters from couples who tell me that my books saved their marriage because they began to incorporate FemDom in the bedroom and sex became fresh and exciting again. My husband and I have practicing FemDom in the bedroom for decades. Yes, I actually wear fetish clothing (leather, boots, corsets, etc.) and I have paddles and whips and a strap-on harness and other ‘toys’. I discipline my husband and he worships my body and sex is never mundane or boring, even after all of these years.

However, what is great about D&S is that it is a wonderful way for a woman to explore and exert her dominance. As I mentioned, a lot of men discover their submissive desire initially via their sexuality. Being sexually dominated by a woman is still the number one fantasy of a lot of men. But what I have done is take what we do in the bedroom to enhance our lifestyle outside the bedroom. We have a discipline night where I might spank my husband but while I dominate him sexually I will also assign him his chores that I expect him to do over the course of the next week. It becomes a win/win scenario. He gets to be dominated in the bedroom and I get to reinforce my dominance outside the bedroom. Not to mention that I love what we do in the bedroom as much as he does, if not more, because our motto is “sex is for the woman’s pleasure”. Sex has become all about my pleasure and a man who learns how to focus on a woman’s pleasure is a man you always want to have around. So experimentation and D&S in the bedroom can be a very healthy and intimate practice.

My books “Female Domination” and “The FemDom Experience” give some wonderful suggestions in this area. Each couple is different which is why I cover a large gambit of sexual practices and activities in my books, some a little more wild than others, but again, each couple is different and must choose that which fits their own unique relationship and lifestyle. Above all, have fun with it.

Elise Sutton
Author
“Female Domination: An Exploration of the male desire for loving female authority”
“The FemDom Experience”
“Searching for Wanda”
www.elisesutton.com

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Becoming a FEMDOM

How To Unleash Your
Female Power:
And Thus Train The Perfect Male

By Elise Sutton


Ladies, what are you looking for in a man? How would you describe the perfect man? How about a man that would worship the ground that you walked on? A man that would focus his energy and his attention on you all of the time. A man that would treat you like a Queen, would pamper you, give you foot and body massages, and who would get more pleasure out of pleasuring you than receiving pleasure himself. How about a man that do whatever you told him to do, without arguing or complaining? A man that would not only do all of his chores like cutting the grass and washing the cars, but would also do housework, the laundry, the grocery shopping, and even the cooking.  How about a man that would wine and dine you and shower you with gifts? A man that would not cop jealous attitudes whenever you talk with or spend time with another man. Above all, a man that would love you with all of his heart and who would view you as his Goddess.

Sounds like the perfect man, huh? Sounds almost too good to be true, doesn't it? A fantasy, a dream that naïve young girls have. Well, I am here to tell you that you can have such a relationship with such a man. As a matter of fact, you are probably already living with a man that has the potential to become this perfect man. You are already working with men like this and you pass men everyday who are like this. There are men everywhere that have the potential and even the desire to be this perfect man that I just described. The key is not where to find the perfect man but how to find the perfect man? The answer to this question lies within. You have the power to draw these men to you and to train them to be the perfect boyfriend, husband, and lover. You, as a female, hold the key.

Females have a power over men. It is within you and you just need to release it. If you will release this dominant female power within you, you will have men begging to serve you. This power can do wonders for you in life. Not only in your relationship, but also in your social life, in your career, and in every other area of your life. Right now in our society, men hold the positions of power and authority. However, they hold these positions by deceiving women into allowing them to be the dominant gender. The truth is that women are the superior gender and that once a woman unleashes her dominant power, no man will be able to stand up to her. Men become submissive and like little puppy dogs when they are confronted with a powerful woman. The good news is that you have this powerful woman on the inside and men desire to submit to her.

If you don't believe me, allow me to refresh your memory a little. I am now talking to women who are married or who were married before. Remember when you were dating? Remember how submissive your future husband was. Think back. Remember how he was so sweet and kind. Remember how he use to bring you flowers? He would do whatever you wanted to do and go wherever you wanted to go. Remember that?  Remember how much you loved him then? Let me ask you this. What changed? Once you got marred, he changed, didn't he? He became selfish and he ignored you. He started to hang around his friends again or he watched television all the time. He started to refuse to go with you to visit your friends and family, didn't he? He refused to go with you shopping or to the places that he once loved to go along with you just to be near you. Everything became a fight and an argument, didn't it? The flowers and gifts stopped. He became cheap and tight with his money, didn't he? Then there is the sex. Sex use to last all night and be so exciting but now it has become boring and fast. Once he gets his sexual release, it's time to go to sleep. Forget about you. After all, bringing you to orgasm is too much work. What happened to the passion? What happened to the guy that you were dating?

What happened is that he is a typical male. What happened is that you didn't realize how you had him under your spell. Your female beauty and your sexuality had captured him and he fell for you. He would do anything for you back then. You probably didn't realize it at the time, but you were the dominant one and he was the submissive one during the courtship. You didn't have to know about D&S and Female Domination back then. Your sexual energy and female ways naturally caused him to become submissive toward you. For a short time, his macho ways and male pride was overcome by your female power. However, once the two of you got married or entered into a serious relationship, his male pride and societies ways caused him to become the dominant one and you surrendered that power and the spell was broken. Now he expected you to be the good little wife and he expected you to obey him. He started to call the shots and the euphoria was over, for the both of you.

Well I want to encourage you to get that power back. That power is still there within you. As a matter of fact, you only used a little of your sexuality and power during the courtship. There is much more power within you that if released, will not only bring back the man that you fell in love with, but will drive him into total submission to you. Not just him either, but all men will sense your female power and they will either desire to serve you or they will be afraid of you. So let me tell you how to release that Tigress within.

First of all, realize that you are a miracle made by God. Men are also miracles and they are beautiful and valuable creations made by God. Men are made in the image of God. However, Women are superior to them. Women are God's last and greatest creations. Women are beautiful, intelligent, and sexual. Women are kind, gentle, tender hearted, yet also strong and resourceful. So begin to see yourself as the superior female that you are. Feel good about yourself and cast off your former low self-image. God does not make junk and losers. God made you to be special and a winner.

God also made you to be in authority over men. God created Eve to be Adam's "helper". The word helper in the Bible is translated from the Hebrew word "ezer". That word means one who helps from a position of authority. It is the same word that is used to describe God in many scriptures that declare how God will help us. It is always from a position of strength and authority. That is the position the female has over the male. So no longer view yourself as a second-class citizen. You are a powerful creation and you are special.

Next, begin to use your sexuality. I don't mean to be promiscuous or to flaunt it. What I am talking about is dress sexy and act sexual. Don't dress sleazy, but sophisticated and lady-like. Don't run around in baggy clothes and sweat pants. Your dress reflects your self-image. Wear nice clothes. They don't have to be expensive clothes, but they should be nice. Wear high heel shoes whenever you can. A lot of men have foot and leg fetishes and seeing an attractive woman wearing high heel shoes can make them weak and submissive. Now, I understand about how uncomfortable they can be at times so you don't have to wear them all of the time but whenever you are going out somewhere and you want to feel extra sexy, don't forget about your shoes.

Also, get some leather clothing. A lot of men have a real leather fetish. A pair of leather pants or a leather skirt can make you feel sexy and powerful and at the same time make men feel weak and submissive. Again, look sophisticated and sexy but not sleazy.

Go to a salon and learn which hair style looks best on you. Also, learn how to properly apply the right kind and the right amount of make-up. Learn what shades look best with your hair color and complexion. If you dress sharp and look good, it will give you confidence and that confidence will radiate from you. Also, exercise and eat right. You want to look good and fit. If you need to lose weight, there are many quality weight loss clinics out there that can help. Don't use fad diets or the lose weight fast schemes. Go to a doctor and lose weight the medically safe way. Also, exercise and tone up.

You don't have to be skinny. As a matter of fact, many submissive men like a larger woman. However, you don't want to be fat and you do want to be fit. If you are over weight and out of shape, don't feel bad about yourself and don't get discouraged. You can lose the weight. It just takes a quality decision. It will help you to feel so much better about yourself and the better you feel both physically and mentally, the more confident you will be and the more sexual energy that will be radiating from you.

Another thing you need to do is to get out there and experience life. Don't spend all of your time home watching television and surfing the Web. Go back to school and take some classes. Join some clubs or organizations that you are interested in. Get around people and become the confident woman that you really are. Excel in your career and use your sexuality and your dominance at the work place to get the promotions and the better paying position. Again, I am not talking about "sleeping" around. I am talking about walking and talking like the sexual and the confident woman that you are. Don't take any crap from any man. Remember, you are superior.

Now as you make these slight adjustments to yourself and your self-image, also allow that dominant nature to flow out of you. Be bold and be strong. Expect good things to happen and they will. In your relationship with your man, begin to dominate him both in and out of the bedroom. Do my "psychoanalysis of the submissive male" on him. Begin to train him to be that perfect man that you desire. Expect excellence out of him and don't allow him to take you for granted. Begin to discipline him, as men need this. Men grow up being disciplined and nurtured by women. Deep inside they still need and desire this.  So learn how to discipline a man and how to properly train him.

During sex, begin to learn about D&S and Female Domination. Some of these activities may seem strange, but they are powerful tools in getting a man to submit. Wear fetish outfits and use his fetish against him. D&S and Female Domination will really spice up your sex life and it will never be boring or routine again. If you will overcome your inhibitions and allow for sexuality and dominance to flow and to grow, you will begin to be amazed at how intense and enjoyable sex can be. Also, start to view sex as being for your pleasure and get into the habit of denying your man sexual orgasms. If you deny him and keep him aroused and frustrated most of the time, he will be so much more eager to serve you and to obey you. He will focus on you and your needs if his sexual drive is on high. You need to control it in order to control him.

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The Superiority of Women

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Back in 1982 Edward C. Whitmont a Jungian psychologists wrote a book called "Return Of The Goddess".  This book was about the returning Goddess archetype and although to my mind a very important book, it was written only for people interested in Jungian psychology.  So unfortunately it was limited in its readership.  So I would like to discuss the return of the Goddess archetype in a more easily understandable form.

A archetype is a powerful emotion that resides in the collective unconsciousness.  A example would be the Hero archetype which in its positive form will push people like soldiers, policemen and firemen to risk their lives to save others.  Though in its negative form will encourage conquerors like Alexander the Great, Napoleon Bonaparte and Hitler to conquer other nations and inflict great suffering onto millions of others for no other reason than to boost the conqueror's personal ego.  The Goddess archetype is feminine counterpart to the Hero archetype and is now returning to consciousness.  Over the last two thousand years the Goddess archetype seemed to have nearly completely disappeared from people's consciousness and only survived in passive forms like the Virgin Mary.  Yet over the last few hundred years it is now starting to return and what is becoming clear is that it is a immensely  powerful archetype.  So powerful is it that it is changing the consciousness of the human race over the last few hundred years.

The first clear manifestation came with the beginnings of the Suffragette movement in the late 19th century.  Though it is now clear it this archetype was affecting people's unconscious mind long before this in preparing the way for female emancipation.  Mary Wollstonecraft wrote her famous book "A Vindication Of The Rights Of Women" back in 1792.  Before such a book could be written without the authoress being burnt at the stake as a Witch. 

As scientists took over the role of the wise men of society they couldn't see why women needed to be oppressed. This allowed women to begin to demand equal rights without the threat of violence from the authorities.  What is surprising about the Feminist movements in the 19th and 20th century is the lack of male opposition.  It only took a small band of Suffragettes demonstrating in the streets at the beginning of the 20th century for exclusively male legislators to pass laws giving women voting rights.  The same thing happened in the 1960s where a small number of Women's Liberation demonstrators forced male dominated legislative chambers pass laws giving equal rights for women.  The lesson of this is that the Goddess archetype is so powerful in our world today, that if Women are willing to organize themselves and stand up for themselves, men will quickly capitulate. Though it has to be admitted that the Goddess archetype seem to be more powerful in the West than in many third world countries.  Though even here we are seeing signs of change.  Women in extremely patriarchal countries like Pakistan and Afghanistan are today risking their lives to bring about change.

The Goddess archetype seem to be affecting men in a very different way, as the Goddess archetype seems to be working through men's sexuality.   Back in the 19th century Leopold Von Sacher-Masoch wrote his famous book "Venus In Furs" and other books of a similar nature. He was basically the first FemDom writer and it was from him the word masochism comes from.  Another writer Sir Henry Rider Haggard at about the same time wrote two novels called "She" and "Ayesha, The Return of She".  Although these novels were not sexual they portrayed a women with seemly limitless power.  As in the second book she contemplates ruling China and seems to have the power to rule the world if she wanted to.  In these books she was undone by her love for an attractive man, though perhaps this had to be added to make the books acceptable to the society of the time.

The Goddess archetype was also changing other men's sexual behavior in this period.  The common image of the Victorian prostitute in England is of a very downtrodden powerless women.  Yet this wasn't true for all of them, at the same time there were very successful prostitutes who became very wealthy and powerful, like the infamous "Skittles".  She got her name by threatening men that; "she would knock them down like a bunch of skittles".  It seems that her aggressive nature made her very popular among rich and powerful men of the time who would happy grovel to her.  In spite of the fact she came from the lower classes.  Her great popularity even allowed her to become a fashion leader. As young upper class Victorian Women would copy her dress styles and even her behavior.

In the 1950s I remember reading a book that commented on the strange fact that many men going to prostitutes only wanted to do the prostitute's housework and to be ordered to do it.  Today with the increasingly popularity of the Dominatrix this behavior is becoming more understandable.  As more and more men admit to being sexually excited by Dominant Women.

The Dominant Women has also did have popular appeal in films.  What is remarkable about the Hollywood films of the 1930s and 40s is the popularity of powerful women like Betty Davis, Joan Crawford, Mae West, Marlene Dietrich, Katharine Hepburn and Barbara Stanwyck.  The powerful characters these actresses portrayed were far ahead of their time and must of presented a powerful role model for ordinary women of the time.  Then it seems the Hollywood films were subjected to more rigorous censorship and these powerful woman disappeared from Hollywood films, in the 1950s and 60s and only slowly returning in more recent times.

Where the Goddess archetype has had the greatest influence is in the individual relationships between women and men.  In the 19th century it was normal for men in marriage to be the dominant partner and there was a strong social stigma against him if he wasn't.  Legally he was entitled to beat his wife with a stick and have his "conjugal rights". This means his wife wasn't legally entitled to refuse her husband sex and he was allowed to use violence to get his way.  At the beginning of the 21st century we now see a big change as woman can have her partner charged with rape or assault if he attempted to do this.  Also it is now far more acceptable for men to no longer be the dominant partner, and among the  younger generation it seems to be more common place that the women is more dominant.  There is also now a increasingly number of househusbands where the traditional roles of the sexes has been completely reversed.

So it seems that the Goddess archetype is influencing us all on the political, religious, social and sexual levels.  There is now not a part of life that the Goddess archetype in not influencing and changing our world.  Even ironically in fundamentalist Churches where you have strong dominant women upholding, "family values" and attacking the rights of women to have abortions.

Now we are seeing signs that the Goddess influencing the minds of women in a different way to allow progress to continue.   The demand by Feminists for equality during the 20th century was very effective in giving women more power, but now equality has been nearly achieved it is becoming a hindrance to further progress.  This requires the Goddess to plant in the minds of people that it is acceptable for women to demand dominance over men and not just equality.  This is very difficult to accept for many older women who fought for equality in the 20th century but there are signs that for the younger generation dominance over men is more acceptable to them.

Men also have to change, many men still very much see Female Dominant as only a sexual fantasy.  Though by exploring this fantasy it has brought about a fundamental change within them.  The next stage will be in living this fantasy 24/7 which many men are starting to do.

This then means we are helpless in the face of this returning archetype, because she works on our emotions and unconscious minds. Already people during the 20th century have found social change too fast to cope with as the Goddess archetype increases in power and influence.  She is able to override the efforts of conservative and right wing politicians to stop the rate of change and return us to the certainties of patriarchy.  While the power of the Christian Church is continually being eroded because they continue to dare to challenge the power of the Goddess archetype.  The same is becoming true for Islam where many of its mullahs are becoming increasingly violence and fanatical in the face of  "western influences".   This has created oppressive governments in many Islam countries which in the long run is counter productive.  As normal people will in time revolt against the oppression of fundamental Islam.   This is already happening in places like Iran as the common people are now demanding a more freedom and liberty.  It seems that in Islamic countries where the extremists are not in control like Egypt, Malaya and Libya, women are now starting to organize themselves and demanding the freedoms western women enjoy.  This is why the Islamic clergy fear and hate the west as western influences are undermining patriarchal power in their countries. 

Patriarchy only became possible because the Goddess archetype moved into the background allowing men to rule.  She has now decided to return and there is nothing that can be done to stop Her.