An online Femdom BDSM Dating

We met on Slave Selection a Femdom BDSM dating website a few months ago, started to text and then spoke on the phone and felt an immediate connection. The chemistry upon meeting was strong and undeniable. We started dating and deeply fell for each other. From our first call, She cast a strong spell and Her sensual hypnotic voice quickly lured me into Her web, compelling me to open to Her and share my darkest secrets. She soon learned about my twisted kinky submissive nature. This dynamic immediately resonated with Her as She already knew power and control turned Her on.

 

While we play many games together, the first time She spread and violated me and saw the surrender in my eyes, my slavery became the reality and everything else became role to play. As Her knowledge grew, She began to savor the potential of the power that was always within Her, so Her deviance grew insatiably. She loves keeping me in a constant state of arousal, taking me to the edge with Her voice, Her hands, Her mouth, Her mind, and Her royal wetness. 

She has forbidden me to cum and required me to tell Her when I can’t take it any longer and am about to release. Each time that happens, I earn punishments, but such 

punishments pale in comparison to the penalty for unauthorized release. As time goes on, Her power grows. She has turned me into Her property, and I am to obey Her without question. She has established rules which I must live by. The rules can change at Her whim, retroactively and without notice. Infractions are not tolerated and excuses ensure additional punishment. 

She has taken ownership and complete control of my body, I am not allowed to even get an erection without Her permission! Her punishments are cruel and creative. She loves to use the whip, the paddle, the cane, hairbrushes, Her hands, belts, wire hangers, etc. She loves to tie me up and is especially fond of predicament bondage. One of Her favorites is painfully tying my balls in such a way that resisting Her whip or cock makes me pull against my own balls. She loves to remind me of my place and keeps me naked most of the time. I am not entitled to privacy and am subject to invasive searches at Her whim. In addition to beatings and physical torture, Her Femdom BDSM punishments can include time outs, writing assignments, verbal abuse, cage time, public humiliation, enforced chastity, withholding rewards and other psychological torture. While serving her and suffering for her pleasure is a reward in itself, She will also reward me with kisses, hugs, caresses, sweetness, and affection. Even when at her most dominant She can be sensual and sweet, but even at her most sensual and sweet, she can be wicked and controlling.

Dominant woman

I am a jogger, not a runner

I never thought a race would show me the way to submission to a very dominant woman, but there I was, 1 mile and already exhausted. Last night I had too much to drink now it seemed I was running in slow motion. But then I saw her, she was running in front of me. Tall, athletic, and beautiful, wearing short running tights.

My God, she had gorgeous ass and unbelievably shapely legs. I started following her and was able to keep a great pace until the last mile when I simply couldn’t keep up. She just kept going, never slowed down and all of a sudden, she was gone. Oh well, at least I will enjoy a cold beer after the race is over, I thought.

I was standing near the bar enjoying my beer when I felt a tap on my shoulder. There she was, the Goddess from the race. I thought you were going to keep up with me she said smiling. I replied that I had the best time running behind her. “Immediately l felt ashamed of my stupid comment”. She saw me blushing and changed the subject.

“Do you know we’re wearing the same shoes, boy?” I looked down and yes, we were both wearing black Brooks Pure Cadence shoes.

Teasing me

She then said, “can you imagine if we were wearing the same underwear too, wouldn’t that be embarrassing?” Not knowing what to say I blurted out, can I get you a beer? I am more of a wine drinker, she said, I live close by and have a nice bottle of wine chilling. Do you want to come over and have a drink? Before I could even reply, she grabbed my hand and led me to the parking lot.

As we got near her car, she turned around and said: “I want you to know I’m a Dominant Woman. I looked at her and asked; does that mean you will tell me what to do?” “Yes,” she said, but that doesn’t mean you have to do what I say if you are not comfortable.

Hearing this I started to get hard. Ok, I said I am cool with that. She smiled, pulled me close and kissed me hard as she slid her hand in my pants grabbing my cock.

“I can see what you mean by Dominant Woman”, I said in a way she wouldn’t be able to hear.

face-sitting with my dominant woman

 

Sexual Dominant Woman

We drove to her place and after our first glass of wine, she pushed me flat on to the couch, locked my wrists and silenced my mouth with her ass. I played with her pussy until she orgasm twice and then licked her clean. We spent the whole night fucking everywhere, nearly every surface of her apartment was covered with our sweat and juices.

She laid across my chest and slid her fingers through my chest hair tugging it gently. I like you, boy, but if you want to be with me you have to submit totally. I looked directly into her eyes and said with no hesitation; ” You have my unconditional submission, I want to be completely dominated by you.”

I really meant it and we have been together since then. I am a true FLR submissive and I love it!

The importance of Gratitude in a D/s relationship

The importance of Gratitude in a D/s relationship. Text from lebdsm

Jul 192019
Submission is a change in life that not only changes the way you dress, act and relate to each other. It truly shifts your life viewpoint in the long term.

 

One of the greatest gifts your Master will be giving you as a submissive/slave is the teaching of gratitude. You will become thankful for the smallest things and the largest surprises.

You are no longer going to take stuff for granted and you are not going to have a list of expectations, but you will learn to be grateful for everything that’s given to you. Submission is in many respects the ideal antidote to our selfish social culture.

Be grateful for everything that gets you through the day with your submission. If you are given tasks by the Master, thank him for the privilege of serving him.

Activity provides you the opportunity to add to your time a range. Once you've been sitting at his feet for most of the evening looking off in the distance, a opportunity to get up, get him some tea or do the dishes will be like heaven.

More than that, being thankful for the tasks he assigns you is a way of acknowledging to him that his pleasure is your pleasure and you love to meet his needs.

Pay attention; If your Master gives you permission to eat, enjoy intimacy, leave the room, etc., you will always say,“Thank you, Master.” You do not thank your Master only for the good things, but for the harsh things as well, this is exactly what’s expected from you!

To learn and to grow takes time, energy and patience from your Master. Punishment and correction will be involved. He will decide the best way to do it; just keep in mind, it is equally exhausting and challenging for both of you.

Thank him for his spankings, his corrections, his lectures and for giving you another chance to learn. The more you thank your Master for the punishments and guidance he gives you, the more firmly entrenched in his love and power you will become.

Developing a heart complete of appreciation is one of the best in all the ways you develop in grace through your practice.