I am Mistress Lang an exceptionally exquisite, elegant and sophisticated Dominatrix. I am the elite Mistress of domination and feminisation. I find myself naturally dominant with a flair and passion for dominating, degrading and feminising men by many ways and means.
Am I evil, yes. Do I care, no. Do they like it, absolutely yes. They adore my evil mind.
This is a true event of serving a Dominant Woman I met on femdom.dating. I was instructed to come to Ms. Lucy’s apartment at 4:30 pm and not a second later. There I was to clean her apartment and serve her wine as she relaxed and read. I was very excited to see and obey Her, as it is my nature to obey and serve Dominant Women. I fantasized about worshipping and kissing Her feet as I was on the long drive from work to Her apartment.
As I was on my way driving, Ms. Lucy instructed me via text to bring Her a specific type of water in a certain size of containers only available at one store. She told me that She still expected me to be at Her apartment at 4:30 pm and there would be no excuses for being late. Quickly realized this would require me to quickly find the store and purchase the water; so I put the address in my phone to know where to go without wasting any time.
While parking I could feel myself getting excited as I was doing a task to please a superior Woman. My cock got hard as I ran through the parking lot and then through the store, I so needed to make sure I wouldn’t be late. Finally, I got the water and as excited as I was my cock started rubbing my pants while I was driving to Her. As I was getting closer to Her apartment, I received another text from Her instructing me to get $5 in quarters so I could do Her laundry. Again she reiterated that I could not be late for any reason...
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Through the earlier posts we've learned whether you are BDSM, what role or roles we might enjoy and how to stay safe when exploring BDSM play. So it makes sense that you now want to know how to find someone to experiment with and maybe have a relationship with!
No matter what sort of person you are looking for, playing the dating game is difficult. Some of you have dated before or been in relationships where you know this to be the case. It's a lot of work. Your ideal partner isn't just going to fall out of the sky! (Although, I really wish it were that easy.) It is an even more difficult task to find someone who is into similar BDSM or D/s activities as you - especially since it's not something you share openly.
It's hidden and secret. And the people who are looking for you? Don't know how to find you either.
Casual Playmates
Let's say you want to explore a playful, perhaps sexual relationship with D/s or BDSM aspects to it. So, you are looking for a casual playmate. These sorts of relationships can be anything from a trusted person within the community that you play with at public parties, or someone that's a Friend with Benefits and you play in private.
It can also be anything that neither of you are looking for long-term right now.
Looking for partners in this situation might be easiest on casual dating sites. Make sure you remember your safety tips and don't meet someone somewhere private until you've felt safe with them in public and have safecalls, safewords and other safety measures in place. Trust is built over time, and until then you should have emergency lines.
Another avenue for casual play partners is the local and not so local BDSM community. If you are a part of the community you can find people to play with and that the leaders of the community trust or that have a good reputation. A lot of play happens between strangers at a play party, so even if you don't attend regularly, try to get to the parties to meet people. Regional and National events are also good places to meet people and possibly hook up.
Long Term Relationships
A lot of what I covered with casual relationships can apply to long-term ones too. People looking for lasting, lifetime relationships mingle in the same places as casual players. So don't forget to go where the people are that have common interests.
In this age of online dating, the dating site like Slave Selection is a place you will find people with FEMDOM BDSM or D/s interest. It may not be quite so obvious and you will probably have to weed through more people who quite obviously don't fit into what you are looking for but it is still possible to find someone who you connect with on all levels and make that lifetime commitment.
Since what we do behind closed doors is generally not talked about in casual conversation, don't be surprised when the man you met at the garage sale or the lady sitting next to you at church that you asked out on a date turns out to have some kinky interest. People interested in BDSM are everywhere. It will probably require you to be a bit more open with people as you date and explore relationships as to what you are looking for but it isn't an impossible feat. The world is full of people with happy, healthy BDSM and D/s relationships.
Do you like wine boy? Yes Mistress I do, thank you for ordering it for me. She was staring at me knowing how unconfortable I was. After few minutes she said, why are you here? My first thought was to tell her because I need to know who I am, but instead I said because I need your help Mistress. Help for? I want to find out why I am so attracted to Dominant Women, why vanilla Women leave a feeling of emptyness inside of me. She said I can guide you boy but you will need to pay attention and be all ears so you can understand the world where Dominant people and submissive people need each other.
