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The Alpha woman rises

Their salaries are bigger, their heels are higher and they never slave over a hot stove. Meet the women with the XX factor.

Highly educated, highly motivated, highly sexed and highly strung? You may not be the bitch some say you are, sister dearest. You could be a brand new breed of woman. So argues British professor and cultural fire-starter Alison Wolf, whose new book The XX Factor is threatening to tear apart what many believe as gospel when it comes to the battle of the sexes.
Wolf believes the sexual revolution has spawned a relatively new being which she calls the "Alpha female". Affluent and successful, the Alpha's fast-living world is that of powerful, influential professionals – she holds jobs that only men used to have.
That she exists at all represents a tectonic shift in male/female relations, but those who assume other females are benefiting from her ascendancy are wrong. The evidence suggests the dramatic gulf between alphas and less fortunate females is actually growing. Alpha sisters are doing it for themselves.

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Becoming a FEMDOM

How To Unleash Your
Female Power:
And Thus Train The Perfect Male

By Elise Sutton


Ladies, what are you looking for in a man? How would you describe the perfect man? How about a man that would worship the ground that you walked on? A man that would focus his energy and his attention on you all of the time. A man that would treat you like a Queen, would pamper you, give you foot and body massages, and who would get more pleasure out of pleasuring you than receiving pleasure himself. How about a man that do whatever you told him to do, without arguing or complaining? A man that would not only do all of his chores like cutting the grass and washing the cars, but would also do housework, the laundry, the grocery shopping, and even the cooking.  How about a man that would wine and dine you and shower you with gifts? A man that would not cop jealous attitudes whenever you talk with or spend time with another man. Above all, a man that would love you with all of his heart and who would view you as his Goddess.

Sounds like the perfect man, huh? Sounds almost too good to be true, doesn't it? A fantasy, a dream that naïve young girls have. Well, I am here to tell you that you can have such a relationship with such a man. As a matter of fact, you are probably already living with a man that has the potential to become this perfect man. You are already working with men like this and you pass men everyday who are like this. There are men everywhere that have the potential and even the desire to be this perfect man that I just described. The key is not where to find the perfect man but how to find the perfect man? The answer to this question lies within. You have the power to draw these men to you and to train them to be the perfect boyfriend, husband, and lover. You, as a female, hold the key.

Females have a power over men. It is within you and you just need to release it. If you will release this dominant female power within you, you will have men begging to serve you. This power can do wonders for you in life. Not only in your relationship, but also in your social life, in your career, and in every other area of your life. Right now in our society, men hold the positions of power and authority. However, they hold these positions by deceiving women into allowing them to be the dominant gender. The truth is that women are the superior gender and that once a woman unleashes her dominant power, no man will be able to stand up to her. Men become submissive and like little puppy dogs when they are confronted with a powerful woman. The good news is that you have this powerful woman on the inside and men desire to submit to her.

If you don't believe me, allow me to refresh your memory a little. I am now talking to women who are married or who were married before. Remember when you were dating? Remember how submissive your future husband was. Think back. Remember how he was so sweet and kind. Remember how he use to bring you flowers? He would do whatever you wanted to do and go wherever you wanted to go. Remember that?  Remember how much you loved him then? Let me ask you this. What changed? Once you got marred, he changed, didn't he? He became selfish and he ignored you. He started to hang around his friends again or he watched television all the time. He started to refuse to go with you to visit your friends and family, didn't he? He refused to go with you shopping or to the places that he once loved to go along with you just to be near you. Everything became a fight and an argument, didn't it? The flowers and gifts stopped. He became cheap and tight with his money, didn't he? Then there is the sex. Sex use to last all night and be so exciting but now it has become boring and fast. Once he gets his sexual release, it's time to go to sleep. Forget about you. After all, bringing you to orgasm is too much work. What happened to the passion? What happened to the guy that you were dating?

What happened is that he is a typical male. What happened is that you didn't realize how you had him under your spell. Your female beauty and your sexuality had captured him and he fell for you. He would do anything for you back then. You probably didn't realize it at the time, but you were the dominant one and he was the submissive one during the courtship. You didn't have to know about D&S and Female Domination back then. Your sexual energy and female ways naturally caused him to become submissive toward you. For a short time, his macho ways and male pride was overcome by your female power. However, once the two of you got married or entered into a serious relationship, his male pride and societies ways caused him to become the dominant one and you surrendered that power and the spell was broken. Now he expected you to be the good little wife and he expected you to obey him. He started to call the shots and the euphoria was over, for the both of you.

Well I want to encourage you to get that power back. That power is still there within you. As a matter of fact, you only used a little of your sexuality and power during the courtship. There is much more power within you that if released, will not only bring back the man that you fell in love with, but will drive him into total submission to you. Not just him either, but all men will sense your female power and they will either desire to serve you or they will be afraid of you. So let me tell you how to release that Tigress within.

First of all, realize that you are a miracle made by God. Men are also miracles and they are beautiful and valuable creations made by God. Men are made in the image of God. However, Women are superior to them. Women are God's last and greatest creations. Women are beautiful, intelligent, and sexual. Women are kind, gentle, tender hearted, yet also strong and resourceful. So begin to see yourself as the superior female that you are. Feel good about yourself and cast off your former low self-image. God does not make junk and losers. God made you to be special and a winner.

God also made you to be in authority over men. God created Eve to be Adam's "helper". The word helper in the Bible is translated from the Hebrew word "ezer". That word means one who helps from a position of authority. It is the same word that is used to describe God in many scriptures that declare how God will help us. It is always from a position of strength and authority. That is the position the female has over the male. So no longer view yourself as a second-class citizen. You are a powerful creation and you are special.

Next, begin to use your sexuality. I don't mean to be promiscuous or to flaunt it. What I am talking about is dress sexy and act sexual. Don't dress sleazy, but sophisticated and lady-like. Don't run around in baggy clothes and sweat pants. Your dress reflects your self-image. Wear nice clothes. They don't have to be expensive clothes, but they should be nice. Wear high heel shoes whenever you can. A lot of men have foot and leg fetishes and seeing an attractive woman wearing high heel shoes can make them weak and submissive. Now, I understand about how uncomfortable they can be at times so you don't have to wear them all of the time but whenever you are going out somewhere and you want to feel extra sexy, don't forget about your shoes.

Also, get some leather clothing. A lot of men have a real leather fetish. A pair of leather pants or a leather skirt can make you feel sexy and powerful and at the same time make men feel weak and submissive. Again, look sophisticated and sexy but not sleazy.

Go to a salon and learn which hair style looks best on you. Also, learn how to properly apply the right kind and the right amount of make-up. Learn what shades look best with your hair color and complexion. If you dress sharp and look good, it will give you confidence and that confidence will radiate from you. Also, exercise and eat right. You want to look good and fit. If you need to lose weight, there are many quality weight loss clinics out there that can help. Don't use fad diets or the lose weight fast schemes. Go to a doctor and lose weight the medically safe way. Also, exercise and tone up.

You don't have to be skinny. As a matter of fact, many submissive men like a larger woman. However, you don't want to be fat and you do want to be fit. If you are over weight and out of shape, don't feel bad about yourself and don't get discouraged. You can lose the weight. It just takes a quality decision. It will help you to feel so much better about yourself and the better you feel both physically and mentally, the more confident you will be and the more sexual energy that will be radiating from you.

Another thing you need to do is to get out there and experience life. Don't spend all of your time home watching television and surfing the Web. Go back to school and take some classes. Join some clubs or organizations that you are interested in. Get around people and become the confident woman that you really are. Excel in your career and use your sexuality and your dominance at the work place to get the promotions and the better paying position. Again, I am not talking about "sleeping" around. I am talking about walking and talking like the sexual and the confident woman that you are. Don't take any crap from any man. Remember, you are superior.

Now as you make these slight adjustments to yourself and your self-image, also allow that dominant nature to flow out of you. Be bold and be strong. Expect good things to happen and they will. In your relationship with your man, begin to dominate him both in and out of the bedroom. Do my "psychoanalysis of the submissive male" on him. Begin to train him to be that perfect man that you desire. Expect excellence out of him and don't allow him to take you for granted. Begin to discipline him, as men need this. Men grow up being disciplined and nurtured by women. Deep inside they still need and desire this.  So learn how to discipline a man and how to properly train him.

During sex, begin to learn about D&S and Female Domination. Some of these activities may seem strange, but they are powerful tools in getting a man to submit. Wear fetish outfits and use his fetish against him. D&S and Female Domination will really spice up your sex life and it will never be boring or routine again. If you will overcome your inhibitions and allow for sexuality and dominance to flow and to grow, you will begin to be amazed at how intense and enjoyable sex can be. Also, start to view sex as being for your pleasure and get into the habit of denying your man sexual orgasms. If you deny him and keep him aroused and frustrated most of the time, he will be so much more eager to serve you and to obey you. He will focus on you and your needs if his sexual drive is on high. You need to control it in order to control him.

By dong these things, you will be unleashing that Tigress within you and you will allow your dominant nature to come forth. This will in turn cause men to act submissive around you and will draw them to you. If you are looking for a submale, use slave-selection.com for free and enjoy :-)

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The Superiority of Women

Anonymous Female Author

Back in 1982 Edward C. Whitmont a Jungian psychologists wrote a book called "Return Of The Goddess".  This book was about the returning Goddess archetype and although to my mind a very important book, it was written only for people interested in Jungian psychology.  So unfortunately it was limited in its readership.  So I would like to discuss the return of the Goddess archetype in a more easily understandable form.

A archetype is a powerful emotion that resides in the collective unconsciousness.  A example would be the Hero archetype which in its positive form will push people like soldiers, policemen and firemen to risk their lives to save others.  Though in its negative form will encourage conquerors like Alexander the Great, Napoleon Bonaparte and Hitler to conquer other nations and inflict great suffering onto millions of others for no other reason than to boost the conqueror's personal ego.  The Goddess archetype is feminine counterpart to the Hero archetype and is now returning to consciousness.  Over the last two thousand years the Goddess archetype seemed to have nearly completely disappeared from people's consciousness and only survived in passive forms like the Virgin Mary.  Yet over the last few hundred years it is now starting to return and what is becoming clear is that it is a immensely  powerful archetype.  So powerful is it that it is changing the consciousness of the human race over the last few hundred years.

The first clear manifestation came with the beginnings of the Suffragette movement in the late 19th century.  Though it is now clear it this archetype was affecting people's unconscious mind long before this in preparing the way for female emancipation.  Mary Wollstonecraft wrote her famous book "A Vindication Of The Rights Of Women" back in 1792.  Before such a book could be written without the authoress being burnt at the stake as a Witch. 

As scientists took over the role of the wise men of society they couldn't see why women needed to be oppressed. This allowed women to begin to demand equal rights without the threat of violence from the authorities.  What is surprising about the Feminist movements in the 19th and 20th century is the lack of male opposition.  It only took a small band of Suffragettes demonstrating in the streets at the beginning of the 20th century for exclusively male legislators to pass laws giving women voting rights.  The same thing happened in the 1960s where a small number of Women's Liberation demonstrators forced male dominated legislative chambers pass laws giving equal rights for women.  The lesson of this is that the Goddess archetype is so powerful in our world today, that if Women are willing to organize themselves and stand up for themselves, men will quickly capitulate. Though it has to be admitted that the Goddess archetype seem to be more powerful in the West than in many third world countries.  Though even here we are seeing signs of change.  Women in extremely patriarchal countries like Pakistan and Afghanistan are today risking their lives to bring about change.

The Goddess archetype seem to be affecting men in a very different way, as the Goddess archetype seems to be working through men's sexuality.   Back in the 19th century Leopold Von Sacher-Masoch wrote his famous book "Venus In Furs" and other books of a similar nature. He was basically the first FemDom writer and it was from him the word masochism comes from.  Another writer Sir Henry Rider Haggard at about the same time wrote two novels called "She" and "Ayesha, The Return of She".  Although these novels were not sexual they portrayed a women with seemly limitless power.  As in the second book she contemplates ruling China and seems to have the power to rule the world if she wanted to.  In these books she was undone by her love for an attractive man, though perhaps this had to be added to make the books acceptable to the society of the time.

The Goddess archetype was also changing other men's sexual behavior in this period.  The common image of the Victorian prostitute in England is of a very downtrodden powerless women.  Yet this wasn't true for all of them, at the same time there were very successful prostitutes who became very wealthy and powerful, like the infamous "Skittles".  She got her name by threatening men that; "she would knock them down like a bunch of skittles".  It seems that her aggressive nature made her very popular among rich and powerful men of the time who would happy grovel to her.  In spite of the fact she came from the lower classes.  Her great popularity even allowed her to become a fashion leader. As young upper class Victorian Women would copy her dress styles and even her behavior.

In the 1950s I remember reading a book that commented on the strange fact that many men going to prostitutes only wanted to do the prostitute's housework and to be ordered to do it.  Today with the increasingly popularity of the Dominatrix this behavior is becoming more understandable.  As more and more men admit to being sexually excited by Dominant Women.

The Dominant Women has also did have popular appeal in films.  What is remarkable about the Hollywood films of the 1930s and 40s is the popularity of powerful women like Betty Davis, Joan Crawford, Mae West, Marlene Dietrich, Katharine Hepburn and Barbara Stanwyck.  The powerful characters these actresses portrayed were far ahead of their time and must of presented a powerful role model for ordinary women of the time.  Then it seems the Hollywood films were subjected to more rigorous censorship and these powerful woman disappeared from Hollywood films, in the 1950s and 60s and only slowly returning in more recent times.

Where the Goddess archetype has had the greatest influence is in the individual relationships between women and men.  In the 19th century it was normal for men in marriage to be the dominant partner and there was a strong social stigma against him if he wasn't.  Legally he was entitled to beat his wife with a stick and have his "conjugal rights". This means his wife wasn't legally entitled to refuse her husband sex and he was allowed to use violence to get his way.  At the beginning of the 21st century we now see a big change as woman can have her partner charged with rape or assault if he attempted to do this.  Also it is now far more acceptable for men to no longer be the dominant partner, and among the  younger generation it seems to be more common place that the women is more dominant.  There is also now a increasingly number of househusbands where the traditional roles of the sexes has been completely reversed.

So it seems that the Goddess archetype is influencing us all on the political, religious, social and sexual levels.  There is now not a part of life that the Goddess archetype in not influencing and changing our world.  Even ironically in fundamentalist Churches where you have strong dominant women upholding, "family values" and attacking the rights of women to have abortions.

Now we are seeing signs that the Goddess influencing the minds of women in a different way to allow progress to continue.   The demand by Feminists for equality during the 20th century was very effective in giving women more power, but now equality has been nearly achieved it is becoming a hindrance to further progress.  This requires the Goddess to plant in the minds of people that it is acceptable for women to demand dominance over men and not just equality.  This is very difficult to accept for many older women who fought for equality in the 20th century but there are signs that for the younger generation dominance over men is more acceptable to them.

Men also have to change, many men still very much see Female Dominant as only a sexual fantasy.  Though by exploring this fantasy it has brought about a fundamental change within them.  The next stage will be in living this fantasy 24/7 which many men are starting to do.

This then means we are helpless in the face of this returning archetype, because she works on our emotions and unconscious minds. Already people during the 20th century have found social change too fast to cope with as the Goddess archetype increases in power and influence.  She is able to override the efforts of conservative and right wing politicians to stop the rate of change and return us to the certainties of patriarchy.  While the power of the Christian Church is continually being eroded because they continue to dare to challenge the power of the Goddess archetype.  The same is becoming true for Islam where many of its mullahs are becoming increasingly violence and fanatical in the face of  "western influences".   This has created oppressive governments in many Islam countries which in the long run is counter productive.  As normal people will in time revolt against the oppression of fundamental Islam.   This is already happening in places like Iran as the common people are now demanding a more freedom and liberty.  It seems that in Islamic countries where the extremists are not in control like Egypt, Malaya and Libya, women are now starting to organize themselves and demanding the freedoms western women enjoy.  This is why the Islamic clergy fear and hate the west as western influences are undermining patriarchal power in their countries. 

Patriarchy only became possible because the Goddess archetype moved into the background allowing men to rule.  She has now decided to return and there is nothing that can be done to stop Her.