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5.08.2019
A BDSM PUNISHMENT
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5.01.2019
MY FIRST BDSM FIRST EXPERIENCE PART 2
Do you like wine boy? Yes Mistress I do, thank you for ordering it for me. She was staring at me knowing how unconfortable I was. After few minutes she said, why are you here? My first thought was to tell her because I need to know who I am, but instead I said because I need your help Mistress. Help for? I want to find out why I am so attracted to Dominant Women, why vanilla Women leave a feeling of emptyness inside of me. She said I can guide you boy but you will need to pay attention and be all ears so you can understand the world where Dominant people and submissive people need each other.
I will do anything to find happiness and fill this emptyness that’s consuming me inside. Would you be my Mistress? She smiled and replied, are you....
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4.28.2015
4.14.2015
How to find female domination (Femdom)
You want to be dominated by a Domme?
Finding a like minded partner can be a pain in the ass (the kind you don't like).
Well, I'll try to help you a bit with this artice.
Mainly there are two different types of initiating contact.
1. - Real Life search
2. - Online search
Real Life search
Beginners often are to shy to go to a BDSM-group especially if they don't have any friends in "the scene". This applys to the majority.
People in "the scene" are folks like you and me. Be nice to them and they will help you.
If you're still not interested to join the BDSM scene there's a different, comfortable way to get in touch with dominant women. InsiderWear.com sells T-shirts which kind of attract dominant women. The idea behind is to discretly announce your femdom fantasies by wearing those Tees and get contacted by dominant women on the street, at the gym or anywhere else.
Following shirts are pretty subtle. You could wear those for work as well.
The other (very common but also often very nerve-racking) way is the
Online search
Demonstrate why you're different.
Before looking for a Domme, you need to decide for yourself what makes you different. If you've taken the trouble to sit in a channel and slowly get involved with it, at some point, someone will ask you about yourself. This is a key moment in your search for a Domme, so use it wisely. Here are some of the classic errors that are made at this point:
Your comment:
the domme's thoughts:
I'm very submissive.
Big deal, so are all submissives.
I do exactly what I'm told.
Well yes.. and?
I'll do anything for the right Mistress.
This one is desperate!
I'm excellent at pleasuring my Mistress
Oh, ok... he's desperate for a fuck.
I'm rich with my own Penthouse suite.
He's a desperate liar.
I'm available for the right Domme!
Totally clueless and arrogant.
I'm 23, very fit and highly intelligent.
Still totally clueless and stupid.
I'm looking for a Domme!
You're a male sub, of course you are.
None of those approaches will work. We see it every night. What makes much more sense is to assume that we know you're submissive, that you'll do as you're told and all that jazz. So don't tell us, move swiftly onto something about you that's interesting. What hobbies do you have? What skills have you got? What makes you an interesting human being? The fact that you're a sub isn't interesting. We know that already. There are very interesting male submissives - I know lots of them, as do the rest of us. But they are interesting because they are people who happen to be submissive. Do you see the difference? I really hope so! Don't continue whittering on about it. If people are interested, they'll ask you about it. If they do, congratulations, you've moved onto the next stage in your search.
FINDING A DOMME IS A LONG TERM PROCESS - IT WILL NOT HAPPEN OVERNIGHT.
If you come into a chat room expecting to find a Domme who will come around and visit you the same evening or the next day to beat you senseless, just leave the room right now and go to #bdsm_stupidly_optomistic. After all - why should a Domme want to? She's probably already got a sub she can phone up and say 'drive over here now, I am in the mood to whack you'.
So just leave it. Don't push it, and don't expect anything to happen tonight. Or tomorrow night. Or this week. Or probably this month. I'm really sorry - I know that you're desperate - it's clear for all to see, and there's nothing that is more off-putting than a desperate submissive. It's not pretty and it's not attractive.
1.24.2015
SECRETS TO A SUBMISSIVE MAN’S DESIRE
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| Today is day 5 being locked up, with 26 more to go. My Boss Lady told me last night come February 14th when my time is up, she’s gonna unlock me so I can fuck her till she cums and not allow me to cum. Then she’s gonna lock me back up till she wants more dick |
There are basic and certain submissive men crave in a relationship. These cravings my seem out of the ordinary or ridiculous to some, but you can decide what it is that you crave. deciding what is is that catches your attention and desire might be different but we all know what being submissive means. One thing that most submissive crave is to give themselves 100% to their partner and get recognition for it. They want their partner to know that they will submit themselves to them at any point. They will do what they are told and look forward to it. Their goal is to satisfy their partner, they want to do things for their partner which may include house chores, errands, work related things… Couples do this on a daily basis, it doesn’t take away from your status. This offering of their submission is one quick way for them to make a huge difference in their partners life.
Sexual submissive. This is what makes submissive men crave the chase of a dominant woman that is involved with in the femdom community. The desire of feeling safe and loved is what we all desire and there are different ways of displaying how one cares for the other. Some feel that from being in control while other find that from being controlled. Sexual submissiveness is a turn on and can be said by both the Mistress and the submissive.
Male chastity is a prime example of sexual submission.The one thing a submissive can do to belong to their dominate partner 24/7 without anyone knowing except the couple whom is involved. Feeling connected and not in control is what they enjoy, the Mistress controls it as for she unlocks him or not. She decided when he can ejaculate and when he can’t. A true submissive will even respect her wishes when he is not locked up and save himself for her and his relationship.
Structure is also craved by the submissive. Not only dos he wants direction but it required that he not give his input. The orders that is given to him is a part of having structure. You have to know your place a sub. Submissive men would rather be spanked and feel all is right in the relationship than to be left wondering where he stands. This goes for any so called punishment. It is somewhat childish in thought but extremely simple in the submissive mind. He simply wants to make things right in the relationship and move forward at her feet.
Most submissives are humble to some degree and desire to be more humble. They wish to have their partner desire their submission and humility. Not as degradation but as a commitment to their relationship. If mama ain’t happy nobody is happy, everyone throws that saying around. For a true submissive it caries deep meaning and his failures in the relationship will be taken hard by him.
Submissives crave attention. It may seem by their desire to be a follower in the female led relationship that they do not crave attention but it is just the opposite. That is their goal. Attention! they will settle for negative attention if that is all they can get. They desire to trade their average lives for a hyper charged one of tease and denial. For multiple orgasms without ejaculation to the point that if they are not expected to remain ejaculation free they are failing. They want you to say no! They want you to hold your feminine power over them and they crave you to exercise it.
If you have a submissive man, learn to understand their cravings because it is most probably the person he is with now! Tell us about your experience!
– fellow subscriber who wishes to remain anonymous submitted this article
1.03.2015
12.30.2014
How To Unleash Your Female Power
How To Unleash Your Female Power And Thus Train The Perfect Male By Elise Sutton
Ladies, what are you looking for in a man? How would you describe the perfect man? How about a man that would worship the ground that you walked on? A man that would focus his energy and his attention on you all of the time. A man that would treat you like a Queen, would pamper you, give you foot and body massages, and who would get more pleasure out of pleasuring you than receiving pleasure himself. How about a man that do whatever you told him to do, without arguing or complaining? A man that would not only do all of his chores like cutting the grass and washing the cars, but would also do housework, the laundry, the grocery shopping, and even the cooking. How about a man that would wine and dine you and shower you with gifts? A man that would not cop jealous attitudes whenever you talk with or spend time with another man. Above all, a man that would love you with all of his heart and who would view you as his Goddess.
Sounds like the perfect man, huh? Sounds almost too good to be true, doesn't it? A fantasy, a dream that naïve young girls have. Well, I am here to tell you that you can have such a relationship with such a man. As a matter of fact, you are probably already living with a man that has the potential to become this perfect man. You are already working with men like this and you pass men everyday who are like this. There are men everywhere that have the potential and even the desire to be this perfect man that I just described. The key is not where to find the perfect man but how to find the perfect man? The answer to this question lies within. You have the power to draw these men to you and to train them to be the perfect boyfriend, husband, and lover. You, as a female, hold the key.
Females have a power over men. It is within you and you just need to release it. If you will release this dominant female power within you, you will have men begging to serve you. This power can do wonders for you in life. Not only in your relationship, but also in your social life, in your career, and in every other area of your life. Right now in our society, men hold the positions of power and authority. However, they hold these positions by deceiving women into allowing them to be the dominant gender. The truth is that women are the superior gender and that once a woman unleashes her dominant power, no man will be able to stand up to her. Men become submissive and like little puppy dogs when they are confronted with a powerful woman. The good news is that you have this powerful woman on the inside and men desire to submit to her.
If you don't believe me, allow me to refresh your memory a little. I am now talking to women who are married or who were married before. Remember when you were dating? Remember how submissive your future husband was. Think back. Remember how he was so sweet and kind. Remember how he use to bring you flowers? He would do whatever you wanted to do and go wherever you wanted to go. Remember that? Remember how much you loved him then? Let me ask you this. What changed? Once you got marred, he changed, didn't he? He became selfish and he ignored you. He started to hang around his friends again or he watched television all the time. He started to refuse to go with you to visit your friends and family, didn't he? He refused to go with you shopping or to the places that he once loved to go along with you just to be near you. Everything became a fight and an argument, didn't it? The flowers and gifts stopped. He became cheap and tight with his money, didn't he? Then there is the sex. Sex use to last all night and be so exciting but now it has become boring and fast. Once he gets his sexual release, it's time to go to sleep. Forget about you. After all, bringing you to orgasm is too much work. What happened to the passion? What happened to the guy that you were dating?
What happened is that he is a typical male. What happened is that you didn't realize how you had him under your spell. Your female beauty and your sexuality had captured him and he fell for you. He would do anything for you back then. You probably didn't realize it at the time, but you were the dominant one and he was the submissive one during the courtship. You didn't have to know about D&S and Female Domination back then. Your sexual energy and female ways naturally caused him to become submissive toward you. For a short time, his macho ways and male pride was overcome by your female power. However, once the two of you got married or entered into a serious relationship, his male pride and societies ways caused him to become the dominant one and you surrendered that power and the spell was broken. Now he expected you to be the good little wife and he expected you to obey him. He started to call the shots and the euphoria was over, for the both of you.
Well I want to encourage you to get that power back. That power is still there within you. As a matter of fact, you only used a little of your sexuality and power during the courtship. There is much more power within you that if released, will not only bring back the man that you fell in love with, but will drive him into total submission to you. Not just him either, but all men will sense your female power and they will either desire to serve you or they will be afraid of you. So let me tell you how to release that Tigress within.
First of all, realize that you are a miracle made by God. Men are also miracles and they are beautiful and valuable creations made by God. Men are made in the image of God. However, Women are superior to them. Women are God's last and greatest creations. Women are beautiful, intelligent, and sexual. Women are kind, gentle, tender hearted, yet also strong and resourceful. So begin to see yourself as the superior female that you are. Feel good about yourself and cast off your former low self-image. God does not make junk and losers. God made you to be special and a winner.
God also made you to be in authority over men. God created Eve to be Adam's "helper". The word helper in the Bible is translated from the Hebrew word "ezer". That word means one who helps from a position of authority. It is the same word that is used to describe God in many scriptures that declare how God will help us. It is always from a position of strength and authority. That is the position the female has over the male. So no longer view yourself as a second-class citizen. You are a powerful creation and you are special.
Next, begin to use your sexuality. I don't mean to be promiscuous or to flaunt it. What I am talking about is dress sexy and act sexual. Don't dress sleazy, but sophisticated and lady-like. Don't run around in baggy clothes and sweat pants. Your dress reflects your self-image. Wear nice clothes. They don't have to be expensive clothes, but they should be nice. Wear high heel shoes whenever you can. A lot of men have foot and leg fetishes and seeing an attractive woman wearing high heel shoes can make them weak and submissive. Now, I understand about how uncomfortable they can be at times so you don't have to wear them all of the time but whenever you are going out somewhere and you want to feel extra sexy, don't forget about your shoes.
Also, get some leather clothing. A lot of men have a real leather fetish. A pair of leather pants or a leather skirt can make you feel sexy and powerful and at the same time make men feel weak and submissive. Again, look sophisticated and sexy but not sleazy.
Go to a salon and learn which hair style looks best on you. Also, learn how to properly apply the right kind and the right amount of make-up. Learn what shades look best with your hair color and complexion. If you dress sharp and look good, it will give you confidence and that confidence will radiate from you. Also, exercise and eat right. You want to look good and fit. If you need to lose weight, there are many quality weight loss clinics out there that can help. Don't use fad diets or the lose weight fast schemes. Go to a doctor and lose weight the medically safe way. Also, exercise and tone up.
You don't have to be skinny. As a matter of fact, many submissive men like a larger woman. However, you don't want to be fat and you do want to be fit. If you are over weight and out of shape, don't feel bad about yourself and don't get discouraged. You can lose the weight. It just takes a quality decision. It will help you to feel so much better about yourself and the better you feel both physically and mentally, the more confident you will be and the more sexual energy that will be radiating from you.
Another thing you need to do is to get out there and experience life. Don't spend all of your time home watching television and surfing the Web. Go back to school and take some classes. Join some clubs or organizations that you are interested in. Get around people and become the confident woman that you really are. Excel in your career and use your sexuality and your dominance at the work place to get the promotions and the better paying position. Again, I am not talking about "sleeping" around. I am talking about walking and talking like the sexual and the confident woman that you are. Don't take any crap from any man. Remember, you are superior.
Now as you make these slight adjustments to yourself and your self-image, also allow that dominant nature to flow out of you. Be bold and be strong. Expect good things to happen and they will. In your relationship with your man, begin to dominate him both in and out of the bedroom. Do my "psychoanalysis of the submissive male" on him. Begin to train him to be that perfect man that you desire. Expect excellence out of him and don't allow him to take you for granted. Begin to discipline him, as men need this. Men grow up being disciplined and nurtured by women. Deep inside they still need and desire this. So learn how to discipline a man and how to properly train him.
During sex, begin to learn about D&S and Female Domination. Some of these activities may seem strange, but they are powerful tools in getting a man to submit. Wear fetish outfits and use his fetish against him. D&S and Female Domination will really spice up your sex life and it will never be boring or routine again. If you will overcome your inhibitions and allow for sexuality and dominance to flow and to grow, you will begin to be amazed at how intense and enjoyable sex can be. Also, start to view sex as being for your pleasure and get into the habit of denying your man sexual orgasms. If you deny him and keep him aroused and frustrated most of the time, he will be so much more eager to serve you and to obey you. He will focus on you and your needs if his sexual drive is on high. You need to control it in order to control him.
By dong these things, you will be unleashing that Tigress within you and you will allow your dominant nature to come forth. This will in turn cause men to act submissive around you and will draw them to you. If you have any questions or if I can be of any help or encouragement to you, please don't hesitate to e-mail me. Good luck and enjoy.
Sounds like the perfect man, huh? Sounds almost too good to be true, doesn't it? A fantasy, a dream that naïve young girls have. Well, I am here to tell you that you can have such a relationship with such a man. As a matter of fact, you are probably already living with a man that has the potential to become this perfect man. You are already working with men like this and you pass men everyday who are like this. There are men everywhere that have the potential and even the desire to be this perfect man that I just described. The key is not where to find the perfect man but how to find the perfect man? The answer to this question lies within. You have the power to draw these men to you and to train them to be the perfect boyfriend, husband, and lover. You, as a female, hold the key.
Females have a power over men. It is within you and you just need to release it. If you will release this dominant female power within you, you will have men begging to serve you. This power can do wonders for you in life. Not only in your relationship, but also in your social life, in your career, and in every other area of your life. Right now in our society, men hold the positions of power and authority. However, they hold these positions by deceiving women into allowing them to be the dominant gender. The truth is that women are the superior gender and that once a woman unleashes her dominant power, no man will be able to stand up to her. Men become submissive and like little puppy dogs when they are confronted with a powerful woman. The good news is that you have this powerful woman on the inside and men desire to submit to her.
If you don't believe me, allow me to refresh your memory a little. I am now talking to women who are married or who were married before. Remember when you were dating? Remember how submissive your future husband was. Think back. Remember how he was so sweet and kind. Remember how he use to bring you flowers? He would do whatever you wanted to do and go wherever you wanted to go. Remember that? Remember how much you loved him then? Let me ask you this. What changed? Once you got marred, he changed, didn't he? He became selfish and he ignored you. He started to hang around his friends again or he watched television all the time. He started to refuse to go with you to visit your friends and family, didn't he? He refused to go with you shopping or to the places that he once loved to go along with you just to be near you. Everything became a fight and an argument, didn't it? The flowers and gifts stopped. He became cheap and tight with his money, didn't he? Then there is the sex. Sex use to last all night and be so exciting but now it has become boring and fast. Once he gets his sexual release, it's time to go to sleep. Forget about you. After all, bringing you to orgasm is too much work. What happened to the passion? What happened to the guy that you were dating?
What happened is that he is a typical male. What happened is that you didn't realize how you had him under your spell. Your female beauty and your sexuality had captured him and he fell for you. He would do anything for you back then. You probably didn't realize it at the time, but you were the dominant one and he was the submissive one during the courtship. You didn't have to know about D&S and Female Domination back then. Your sexual energy and female ways naturally caused him to become submissive toward you. For a short time, his macho ways and male pride was overcome by your female power. However, once the two of you got married or entered into a serious relationship, his male pride and societies ways caused him to become the dominant one and you surrendered that power and the spell was broken. Now he expected you to be the good little wife and he expected you to obey him. He started to call the shots and the euphoria was over, for the both of you.
Well I want to encourage you to get that power back. That power is still there within you. As a matter of fact, you only used a little of your sexuality and power during the courtship. There is much more power within you that if released, will not only bring back the man that you fell in love with, but will drive him into total submission to you. Not just him either, but all men will sense your female power and they will either desire to serve you or they will be afraid of you. So let me tell you how to release that Tigress within.
First of all, realize that you are a miracle made by God. Men are also miracles and they are beautiful and valuable creations made by God. Men are made in the image of God. However, Women are superior to them. Women are God's last and greatest creations. Women are beautiful, intelligent, and sexual. Women are kind, gentle, tender hearted, yet also strong and resourceful. So begin to see yourself as the superior female that you are. Feel good about yourself and cast off your former low self-image. God does not make junk and losers. God made you to be special and a winner.
God also made you to be in authority over men. God created Eve to be Adam's "helper". The word helper in the Bible is translated from the Hebrew word "ezer". That word means one who helps from a position of authority. It is the same word that is used to describe God in many scriptures that declare how God will help us. It is always from a position of strength and authority. That is the position the female has over the male. So no longer view yourself as a second-class citizen. You are a powerful creation and you are special.
Next, begin to use your sexuality. I don't mean to be promiscuous or to flaunt it. What I am talking about is dress sexy and act sexual. Don't dress sleazy, but sophisticated and lady-like. Don't run around in baggy clothes and sweat pants. Your dress reflects your self-image. Wear nice clothes. They don't have to be expensive clothes, but they should be nice. Wear high heel shoes whenever you can. A lot of men have foot and leg fetishes and seeing an attractive woman wearing high heel shoes can make them weak and submissive. Now, I understand about how uncomfortable they can be at times so you don't have to wear them all of the time but whenever you are going out somewhere and you want to feel extra sexy, don't forget about your shoes.
Also, get some leather clothing. A lot of men have a real leather fetish. A pair of leather pants or a leather skirt can make you feel sexy and powerful and at the same time make men feel weak and submissive. Again, look sophisticated and sexy but not sleazy.
Go to a salon and learn which hair style looks best on you. Also, learn how to properly apply the right kind and the right amount of make-up. Learn what shades look best with your hair color and complexion. If you dress sharp and look good, it will give you confidence and that confidence will radiate from you. Also, exercise and eat right. You want to look good and fit. If you need to lose weight, there are many quality weight loss clinics out there that can help. Don't use fad diets or the lose weight fast schemes. Go to a doctor and lose weight the medically safe way. Also, exercise and tone up.
You don't have to be skinny. As a matter of fact, many submissive men like a larger woman. However, you don't want to be fat and you do want to be fit. If you are over weight and out of shape, don't feel bad about yourself and don't get discouraged. You can lose the weight. It just takes a quality decision. It will help you to feel so much better about yourself and the better you feel both physically and mentally, the more confident you will be and the more sexual energy that will be radiating from you.
Another thing you need to do is to get out there and experience life. Don't spend all of your time home watching television and surfing the Web. Go back to school and take some classes. Join some clubs or organizations that you are interested in. Get around people and become the confident woman that you really are. Excel in your career and use your sexuality and your dominance at the work place to get the promotions and the better paying position. Again, I am not talking about "sleeping" around. I am talking about walking and talking like the sexual and the confident woman that you are. Don't take any crap from any man. Remember, you are superior.
Now as you make these slight adjustments to yourself and your self-image, also allow that dominant nature to flow out of you. Be bold and be strong. Expect good things to happen and they will. In your relationship with your man, begin to dominate him both in and out of the bedroom. Do my "psychoanalysis of the submissive male" on him. Begin to train him to be that perfect man that you desire. Expect excellence out of him and don't allow him to take you for granted. Begin to discipline him, as men need this. Men grow up being disciplined and nurtured by women. Deep inside they still need and desire this. So learn how to discipline a man and how to properly train him.
During sex, begin to learn about D&S and Female Domination. Some of these activities may seem strange, but they are powerful tools in getting a man to submit. Wear fetish outfits and use his fetish against him. D&S and Female Domination will really spice up your sex life and it will never be boring or routine again. If you will overcome your inhibitions and allow for sexuality and dominance to flow and to grow, you will begin to be amazed at how intense and enjoyable sex can be. Also, start to view sex as being for your pleasure and get into the habit of denying your man sexual orgasms. If you deny him and keep him aroused and frustrated most of the time, he will be so much more eager to serve you and to obey you. He will focus on you and your needs if his sexual drive is on high. You need to control it in order to control him.
By dong these things, you will be unleashing that Tigress within you and you will allow your dominant nature to come forth. This will in turn cause men to act submissive around you and will draw them to you. If you have any questions or if I can be of any help or encouragement to you, please don't hesitate to e-mail me. Good luck and enjoy.
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