COCKOLD LIFESTYLE WITH MY MISTRESS

A Typical Day In A Cockold Lifestyle

I live a cockold lifestyle and am completely dedicated to serving my Mistress. Today, I woke up an hour before my Mistress as expected to start preparing her breakfast. As I was preparing her breakfast I dropped a plate in the kitchen and scurried to clean up the mess scared she would wake up and see that I’ve been a bad boy. Thankfully, she didn’t wake up from the noise and came down at her normal time.

She was greeted with her favorite omelet, some toast, orange juice, and the newspaper. I proceeded with licking her feet and thanking her for granting me the privilege of her presence. Out of nowhere she yells at me to get naked and spanked me for not having a plate for her friend that was on his way. I had no idea this friend was coming and immediately started to make her friend a plate praying I could have it prepared before he got there. I feel very lucky that I live a cockold lifestyle and I am able to serve my Mistress’s friends too.....

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FEMALE DOMINATION IN ANCIENT TIMES AND THE PRESENT

Upon first entering the world of female domination, we are driven by tabooed instincts – so why are we surprised to discover that during ancient times, women were worshipped religiously? Were they worshipped as “sex objects”? On the contrary, women were worshipped through means and meanings. Perhaps a clue for Western civilization that is familiar, is the name: Kama Sutra, and few dare to read up on it. Having such a book on one’s coffee table… is equivalent to leaving a dildo on the bed except that Kama Sutra is not given the credit it deserves in Western society...

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Being a Domme

Being a Domme means I am the fucker.  In charge. I can relax into who I really am and encourage my sub to do the same. 

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SECRETS TO A SUBMISSIVE MAN’S DESIRE

Today is day 5 being locked up, with 26 more to go. My Boss Lady told me last night come February 14th when my time is up, she’s gonna unlock me so I can fuck her till she cums and not allow me to cum. Then she’s gonna lock me back up till she wants more dick

There are basic and certain submissive men crave in a relationship. These cravings my seem out of the ordinary or ridiculous to some, but you can decide what it is that you crave. deciding what is is that catches your attention and desire might be different but we all know what being submissive means. One thing that most submissive crave is to give themselves 100% to their partner and get recognition for it. They want their partner to know that they will submit themselves to them at any point. They will do what they are told and look forward to it. Their goal is to satisfy their partner, they want to do things for their partner which may include house chores, errands, work related things… Couples do this on a daily basis, it doesn’t take away from your status. This offering of their submission is one quick way for them to make a huge difference in their partners life.
Sexual submissive.  This is what makes submissive men crave the chase of a dominant woman that is involved with in the femdom community. The desire of feeling safe and loved is what we all desire and there are different ways of displaying how one cares for the other.  Some feel that from being in control while other find that from being controlled. Sexual submissiveness is a turn on and can be said by both the Mistress and the submissive.
Male chastity is a prime example of sexual submission.The one thing a submissive can do to belong to their dominate partner 24/7 without anyone knowing except the couple whom is involved. Feeling connected and not in control is what they enjoy, the Mistress controls it as for she unlocks him or not. She decided when he can ejaculate and when he can’t. A true submissive will even respect her wishes when he is not locked up and save himself for her and his relationship.
Structure is also craved by the submissive. Not only dos he wants direction but it required that he not give his input. The orders that is given to him is a part of having structure. You have to know your place a sub. Submissive men would rather be spanked and feel all is right in the relationship than to be left wondering where he stands. This goes for any so called punishment. It is somewhat childish in thought but extremely simple in the submissive mind. He simply wants to make things right in the relationship and move forward at her feet.
Most submissives are humble to some degree and desire to be more humble. They wish to have their partner desire their submission and humility. Not as degradation but as a commitment to their relationship. If mama ain’t happy nobody is happy, everyone throws that saying around. For a true submissive it caries deep meaning and his failures in the relationship will be taken hard by him.
Submissives crave attention. It may seem by their desire to be a follower in the female led relationship that they do not crave attention but it is just the opposite. That is their goal. Attention! they will settle for negative attention if that is all they can get. They desire to trade their average lives for a hyper charged one of tease and denial. For multiple orgasms without ejaculation to the point that if they are not expected to remain ejaculation free they are failing. They want you to say no! They want you to hold your feminine power over them and they crave you to exercise it.
If you have a submissive man, learn to understand their cravings because it is most probably the person he is with now! Tell us about your experience!
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Pegging describes a sexual practice in which a woman penetrates a man’s anus with a strap-on dildo. Because the term is quite new, many people use different terms for “pegging”, such as “bend over boyfriend” (commonly shortened to BOB).

The act of pegging can be enjoyable for both partners: men may find stimulation of the anus, rectum, and adjacent organs, particularly the prostate, enjoyable provided that enough lubricant is used, and women may get direct stimulation from the dildo, from its base, from an anal “butt plug”, or in the case of a form of double-ended dildo, from vaginal penetration on the other end. Additionally, a woman could use a secondary vibrator, between the dildo and her clitoris, to get pleasure from pegging.

Some men and women may also find pleasure in the psychological aspects of submitting and dominating, respectively; indeed it is quite common for a femdom roleplay to culminate in a pegging, although as BDSM practitioners might point out, the act of being penetrated is not necessarily experienced as a submissive act, nor is the act of penetrating always experienced as a dominant act.

Given the stigma associated with anal sex, some people, many of them heterosexual, derive enjoyment from the taboo or gender-transgressive aspects of pegging. Some females may enjoy the feeling of having a “simulated penis,” while some men enjoy the experience of receptive penetration in addition to the ability to masturbate due to the fact that their penis is “free”.When it comes to bedroom antics, it can be kind of hard to keep things feeling new and exciting. Maybe you’ve tried watching porn together, role playing or even incorporating BDSM, but you’re still not satisfied. Moving beyond the traditional ways of spicing up your bedroom can easily fix your issue. Instead of going for the norm this weekend,go for a strap on.

Sure, strap ons can be a little intimidating, but everyone and every kind of couple can actually find a lot of enjoyment and pleasure in using one. Let’s explore the who’s, the how’s and the what’s of all things strap-on.

When you’re talking about strap-ons, you’re actually talking about the harness that you wear. Harnesses come in four different options for you to choose from.

There is the two strap harness, which tends to be the most popular option. This harness allows the wearer to simply step into the straps and pull them up around the waist. It keeps your back side open and free for easy access.

There is also the thong option, which looks exactly like the way it sounds. But unlike the two strap, this one does not allow for any easy access.

The double penetration strap on gives the wearer some of the fun, too, by featuring a dildo or vibrator that they can insert while they peg their partner.

Finally, the full coverage strap on. These are worn like underwear and are usually modelled after men’s briefs or women’s bikini style of underwear. While there isn’t access available when wearing these, they do provide a lot of stability when thrusting.

Some strap ons come with affixed dildos. This is a great all-in-one option, but doesn’t allow for variety or for you to swap anything out in case the dildo is too large. Getting separate pieces will ensure that everything fits properly and gives you options. A separate harness will come with interchangeable d-rings that allow for different sized dildos or vibrators to be placed within the harness and also make cleaning up a breeze.

First time strap on users looking to be comfortable should look for harnesses that have cushioned or padded straps. And as always, when looking for dildos and vibrators, be sure to buy ones that are made from body safe materials like medical grade silicone and metal, glass, elastomer or hard plastic.

Now strap ons are typically thought to be used by women on other women or on men, but they are also a great option for men who have impotence problems. You can get a hallowed out dildo option that will allow you to place yourself inside of it and grow within it. This is a great way to feel connected to your partner while giving them the pleasure they want.

What do you think about pegging? strap ons?