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I unlock my Slave Selection boy toy from his chastity cage at least once a day, to play with him and give him a wonderful raging hardon. I need to KEEP him “finely tuned” as well as remind him daily – who is in charge. Well Last Night after sadistically teasing and edging him for well over an hour (watching TV in bed), I decided it was time to let him cum – he had been so wonderfully obedient, devotional and venerating towards me for the last two or three weeks. I had never tried it before, but I had him get almost upside down for me, so I could make him ejaculate and Cum right into his own mouth. He was very hesitant at first, but he knows better than question – anything I ask him to do… It was a little awkward for him, as he’s not exactly a small guy, but rather quite the muscular virile male – but once he was in position, I started fucking his sexy vulnerable ass slowly with my  previously prepared lubed up  chrome Butt Plug – while deftly milking my Stud Muffins Magnificent 8″ Cock of Curved Perfection at the same time… I had never before used my dildo type Butt Plug on him like this and he was completely shocked and surprised (he’s such a manly man)… After a few superb extraordinarily close edgings, I finally took him OVER the edge and I Made Him Cum. His mouth was wide open as I instructed, maybe because I was making his Long Anticipated (Cherished) Climax feel so Unbelievably Good… Nevertheless His Miraculous Manhood suddenly strained impossibly harder in my hand and a moment later, a Huge Streaming Load of his  Ejaculate  shot with astonishing force into his wide open mouth and hit the back of his throat. 

It had been a long time since I had “allowed” him to Cum and I had  edged him  daily, for two or three weeks, so his first explosive eruption was a whole lot of cum…  His second squirt torpedoed again (instantly) squarely into his mouth but his third pressurized load – some landed on his face and beard. His mouth quickly filled as he continued spurting and erupting in rapid succession – and as he continually tried to swallow (as I instructed him to) – he began to choke on the sheer volume of pudding filling his mouth. He eventually swallowed it  ALL  which made me so very dominant  and happy  that he was obediently recycling his own healthy testosterone as I Commanded…  He had never CUM so hard or so much before for me, I guess the dildo up his sexy virgin ass, massaging his prostate made all the difference… His Rock Hard  Monster  Pulsing in my hand, felt harder than ever, as I leaned over and down to him and licked the remaining beads of salty sweet cum from his face and beard and then fed it to him in a final kiss..  I then allowed and encouraged him to get up and lay upon the bed with the Butt Plug still buried in his adorable ass.

MY FIRST BDSM FIRST EXPERIENCE PART 2

Do you like wine boy? Yes Mistress I do, thank you for ordering it for me. She was staring at me knowing how unconfortable I was. After few minutes she said, why are you here? My first thought was to tell her because I need to know who I am, but instead I said because I need your help Mistress. Help for? I want to find out why I am so attracted to Dominant Women, why vanilla Women leave a feeling of emptyness inside of me. She said I can guide you boy but you will need to pay attention and be all ears so you can understand the world where Dominant people and submissive people need each other.

I will do anything to find happiness and fill this emptyness that’s consuming me inside. Would you be my Mistress? She smiled and replied, are you....


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“What. No-no.” “Please explain then, if you like to proceed with the sensual domination session. You see, I can’t be doing this unless I am sure you have strong feelings for me, and that you could commit yourself to me.” “I do have strong feelings for you. I have always been very attracted to you, but I have forced it back because of the workplace. I’m so confused. I’ve never been with a woman like you before.” “Maybe that’s your problem.” “Maybe it is.” “So do you like me, maybe even attracted to me. Is that all?” “No, I just now realize that you are so much more.” “What do you mean? I need to know exactly how you feel before I can continue with the sensual domination session. Say it out loud.”

“What do you mean? I’m just starting to figure things out. What do you want me to say?” “Convince me that you really want me.” “I do, what more can I say?” “Use your imagination, but more importantly, be sincere.” “Marie, I really really want you. Not just now, but going forward in my life.” “Not too bad, but I think you can do better. And I deserve much better. Maybe I have to help you along. Repeat after me, but only if this is what you really want: I, Matt, am totally attracted to you. There is nothing I would not do for you.” Matt got a empty look on his face. I was wondering what he was thinking. He opened his mouth to say something, but nothing came out. This happened again, and again, and at the fourth try Matt finally spoke.

“I, Matt am totally attractive to you and there is nothing I wouldn’t do for you“. “Now, that was better.” I stepped over and embraced him. I leaned in some more and kissed him. Our lips met and soon our tongues were dancing together. After a little while, I pulled back to catch some air.
“Wow, how about that? Any regrets?” “No, none whatsoever.” “Great, I was hoping you would feel that.” “So, where are we going from here?”

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The Cuckold Gets His Mistress Ready

Wednesday began just like another day, I woke up earlier then Mistress Ashley. Got Mistress’s bath ready and then went back to her bedroom and knocked on the door asking if she was ready for her bath. Mistress Ashley called out, “You may enter.” I walked in and Mistress Ashley told me to roll down her covers. I extended my hand to help her out. Mistress tells me to follow her into the bathroom, instructing me to remove her nightgown and panties. Mistress then steps into the bath and tells me to wash her clean.

She then tells me to go in the bedroom and lay out her business suit with the short skirt since today is hump day. I return to the bathroom to dry Mistress off and apply her body lotion. “Doesn’t this lotion smell pretty. Maybe if you are a good pet I might let you use a little bit of the lotion,” she says. We move into the bedroom and I dress Mistress Ashley for her day and Mistress Ashley gives me my chores for the day.

Mistress Brings A Few Guests Home
Mistress left for work and I start on her laundry making sure I take extra care of her panties. The phone rings and it is Mistress Ashley telling me she is bringing home a couple of guests for dinner. She requested I prepare dinner with the menu she gives me. I begin to prepare the dinner and setting the table. Mistress Ashley texts me to let me know she will be arriving soon. Oh no I lost track of time and did not cleanup! I must be at the door to greet her guests on time and ready to serve them. Suddenly, I hear the sound of Mistress’s car arriving. I open the door and notice Mistress Ashley is not happy with as I try to apologize. Mistress Ashley tells me that we will deal with this later, and then introduces her two male guess.

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How to find female domination (Femdom)

You want to be dominated by a Domme?

Finding a like minded partner can be a pain in the ass (the kind you don't like).

Well, I'll try to help you a bit with this artice.

Mainly there are two different types of initiating contact.

1. - Real Life search

2. - Online search
Real Life search



Beginners often are to shy to go to a BDSM-group especially if they don't have any friends in "the scene". This applys to the majority.

People in "the scene" are folks like you and me. Be nice to them and they will help you.

If you're still not interested to join the BDSM scene there's a different, comfortable way to get in touch with dominant women. InsiderWear.com sells T-shirts which kind of attract dominant women. The idea behind is to discretly announce your femdom fantasies by wearing those Tees and get contacted by dominant women on the street, at the gym or anywhere else.


Following shirts are pretty subtle. You could wear those for work as well.


The other (very common but also often very nerve-racking) way is the
Online search

Demonstrate why you're different.







Before looking for a Domme, you need to decide for yourself what makes you different. If you've taken the trouble to sit in a channel and slowly get involved with it, at some point, someone will ask you about yourself. This is a key moment in your search for a Domme, so use it wisely. Here are some of the classic errors that are made at this point:




Your comment:


the domme's thoughts:


I'm very submissive.

Big deal, so are all submissives.


I do exactly what I'm told.

Well yes.. and?


I'll do anything for the right Mistress.

This one is desperate!


I'm excellent at pleasuring my Mistress

Oh, ok... he's desperate for a fuck.


I'm rich with my own Penthouse suite.

He's a desperate liar.


I'm available for the right Domme!

Totally clueless and arrogant.


I'm 23, very fit and highly intelligent.

Still totally clueless and stupid.


I'm looking for a Domme!

You're a male sub, of course you are.


None of those approaches will work. We see it every night. What makes much more sense is to assume that we know you're submissive, that you'll do as you're told and all that jazz. So don't tell us, move swiftly onto something about you that's interesting. What hobbies do you have? What skills have you got? What makes you an interesting human being? The fact that you're a sub isn't interesting. We know that already. There are very interesting male submissives - I know lots of them, as do the rest of us. But they are interesting because they are people who happen to be submissive. Do you see the difference? I really hope so! Don't continue whittering on about it. If people are interested, they'll ask you about it. If they do, congratulations, you've moved onto the next stage in your search.


FINDING A DOMME IS A LONG TERM PROCESS - IT WILL NOT HAPPEN OVERNIGHT.


If you come into a chat room expecting to find a Domme who will come around and visit you the same evening or the next day to beat you senseless, just leave the room right now and go to #bdsm_stupidly_optomistic. After all - why should a Domme want to? She's probably already got a sub she can phone up and say 'drive over here now, I am in the mood to whack you'.
So just leave it. Don't push it, and don't expect anything to happen tonight. Or tomorrow night. Or this week. Or probably this month. I'm really sorry - I know that you're desperate - it's clear for all to see, and there's nothing that is more off-putting than a desperate submissive. It's not pretty and it's not attractive.

SECRETS TO A SUBMISSIVE MAN’S DESIRE

Today is day 5 being locked up, with 26 more to go. My Boss Lady told me last night come February 14th when my time is up, she’s gonna unlock me so I can fuck her till she cums and not allow me to cum. Then she’s gonna lock me back up till she wants more dick

There are basic and certain submissive men crave in a relationship. These cravings my seem out of the ordinary or ridiculous to some, but you can decide what it is that you crave. deciding what is is that catches your attention and desire might be different but we all know what being submissive means. One thing that most submissive crave is to give themselves 100% to their partner and get recognition for it. They want their partner to know that they will submit themselves to them at any point. They will do what they are told and look forward to it. Their goal is to satisfy their partner, they want to do things for their partner which may include house chores, errands, work related things… Couples do this on a daily basis, it doesn’t take away from your status. This offering of their submission is one quick way for them to make a huge difference in their partners life.
Sexual submissive.  This is what makes submissive men crave the chase of a dominant woman that is involved with in the femdom community. The desire of feeling safe and loved is what we all desire and there are different ways of displaying how one cares for the other.  Some feel that from being in control while other find that from being controlled. Sexual submissiveness is a turn on and can be said by both the Mistress and the submissive.
Male chastity is a prime example of sexual submission.The one thing a submissive can do to belong to their dominate partner 24/7 without anyone knowing except the couple whom is involved. Feeling connected and not in control is what they enjoy, the Mistress controls it as for she unlocks him or not. She decided when he can ejaculate and when he can’t. A true submissive will even respect her wishes when he is not locked up and save himself for her and his relationship.
Structure is also craved by the submissive. Not only dos he wants direction but it required that he not give his input. The orders that is given to him is a part of having structure. You have to know your place a sub. Submissive men would rather be spanked and feel all is right in the relationship than to be left wondering where he stands. This goes for any so called punishment. It is somewhat childish in thought but extremely simple in the submissive mind. He simply wants to make things right in the relationship and move forward at her feet.
Most submissives are humble to some degree and desire to be more humble. They wish to have their partner desire their submission and humility. Not as degradation but as a commitment to their relationship. If mama ain’t happy nobody is happy, everyone throws that saying around. For a true submissive it caries deep meaning and his failures in the relationship will be taken hard by him.
Submissives crave attention. It may seem by their desire to be a follower in the female led relationship that they do not crave attention but it is just the opposite. That is their goal. Attention! they will settle for negative attention if that is all they can get. They desire to trade their average lives for a hyper charged one of tease and denial. For multiple orgasms without ejaculation to the point that if they are not expected to remain ejaculation free they are failing. They want you to say no! They want you to hold your feminine power over them and they crave you to exercise it.
If you have a submissive man, learn to understand their cravings because it is most probably the person he is with now! Tell us about your experience!
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Look how swollen his cock gets in it’s little cage just from looking at our feet. If we let him lick our feet his cock will totally bulge out of the cage… Do you want to see..?? Okay hubby my dear boy Suzie wants to see you lick our feet so you have permission to crawl over here and start licking…

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Now get on your knees and lick up your mess… Then we can lock him back up in the cage…

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