TRICK OR TREAT THE PERFECT BDSM HALLOWEEN PARTY

This is how I had my first fantastic BDSM Experience.

A friend at the gym told me about an upcoming Halloween party and begged me to go with him since he did not want to go by himself. The party was in an hour and I didn’t have time to go home for a costume, so I finished my workout as fast as I could, wearing my running tights went to the closest store and bought a mask.

When we got to the party I noticed almost everyone was dressed in BDSM costumes.

Almost immediately a beautiful Woman dressed in leather came over to me and said; you have an odd costume dear. Didn’t you know this is a BDSM themed party? No I said, this was a last minute invitation and not knowing it was a BDSM party, I thought getting any mask would be enough. Now I feel like a complete idiot. She smiled at me and that’s when I noticed how sexy she looked on her perfect black tight outfit. Innevitably I started to get hard and my cock was pushing through my running tights. She gazzed right at my crotch smiled again and asked me if I wanted go out on the deck and talk.......

PANTY DRAWER

Jessica was sick and tired of her boytoy’s constant texting and whining. What had started out as sexy playtime and a welcome distraction from her hectic life, had quickly spiraled into an annoying needy “relationship“. She needed to put an end to it, and she knew exactly how.

She had met him at the car wash, wearing her usual head to toe black ensemble, a fitted clingy catsuit, with a leather jacket and black high heeled booties. With her omnipresent dark sunglasses, and hair pulled back into a neat ponytail, she looked all business. Working on her iPad while waiting for her black Mercedes to be detailed, she glanced up and couldn’t help but notice the hot piece of ass as he walked past her to sit down in an adjacent chair. She eyed him up and down from behind her dark lenses, taking in his young fit body, nice hands, and tousled mop of hair. She exhaled and shifted in her seat to turn towards him. “Excuse me, but I was wondering how you like that car? I’m considering getting one for weekends.” She pointed to his sports car with a lacquered nail, as she lowered her sunglasses to give him a piercing stare with her crystal blue eyes. He smiled nervously and started rattling on about the car with nervous abandon. She just slid her sunglasses back up over her eyes and slipped a card with her number into the palm of his hand. With that, she got up and made her way towards her car, slipped into the black leather interior, vanishing as the tinted window rolled up. He blushed as he stared at the card. It was shiny black with an elegant red font which simply read, “Truth or Dare”, with a phone number below.

Of course, he texted within the hour. He didn’t know what to write, but he couldn’t let this opportunity pass him by. “Hi, it’s Stephen from the carwash.” No reply. He checked his phone incessantly for the next few hours. As he sat at his apartment eating a slice of pizza while watching Game of Thrones, he heard the ping. Then another text coming through. He eagerly opened the text from Jessica, and smiled, “Tonite. Midnight. Meet?” “Yeah”, was all he wrote back. She texted the address of a hotel lounge downtown. He completely forgot about Game of Thrones and got up to go get ready. His roommate laughed and asked him what the hell was so urgent. Stephen only smiled and said, “It’s urgent for sure, dude.”

The Uber car dropped him off in front of the grand old hotel right at midnight. He pushed his hair off of his face, took a deep breath and headed through the entrance towards the vast dimly lit lobby. Plush velvet furniture filled the room, and Persian carpets lined the floor. Across the room, he saw her. Seated on a sofa, in a fitted short black dress, her long legs encased in black sheer nylons, she crossed and uncrossed her legs. He noticed the sky-high patent pumps gleaming. She saw him, and her eyes drew him across the room to her side. He inhaled her sensual fragrance, as she reached down to grip his strong thigh with a firm hand, her long flawless nails digging into his leg. He felt his cock get hard immediately. She slid her hand across his thigh, and up between his legs. “I like this”, she smiled, gripping his balls and shaft. He blushed again. This woman was too much, he thought to himself. The waiter came over with a bottle of champagne and two glasses.

They sat drinking the champagne, making small talk. She leaned over and whispered in his ear, “I need a distraction, nothing else. Got it? No drama. Just sex, when I want it, how I want it, and that’s it. Got it?” She stared hard into his eyes, and he was under her spell. She took his hand and pulled him close. “Let’s go up to the room now. I want you to show me what you’ve got.”

As soon as the elevator door closed, he pressed her against the wall, and slid her short dress up over her firm hips, gripping her ass and feverishly kissing her lips, neck, and shoulders. She moaned with pleasure and anticipation. Pushing him away, she told him, “Patience. No rushing.” The door opened, and she led him down the hall towards the room. It was much more than a room. The luxurious suite had a spectacular view and a full bar. She pulled him down the hallway into a vast bedroom, with a massive bed. She playfully pushed him so that he fell onto his back on the bed, Then she climbed on top of him. straddling him, her dress slipping up around her waist. The was wearing thigh high stockings with garters holding them up. And, he noticed, no panties. Her perfectly plump pussy glistened, teasing him. His cock was throbbing with excitement. “You know, I hate wearing panties. So restricting”, she laughed, slipping her hair out of the ponytail, so it fell over him. He grabbed her waist, and she leaned down to stroke his cock. “You better fuck me well, and I want you to go all night.” With that, she pulled her dress over her head and gripping his cock, slid it between her legs and started to ride him, with only her stockings, garter and high heels on. His pants were still around his ankles. She gripped his strong shoulders as she moved her hips up and down and began grinding and moaning with pleasure. She leaned over and whispered into his ear. “This is just a test”. They fucked all night. She pulled him out of the bed and told him she wanted him to fuck her in the bathroom so she could watch in the full-length mirror. The went into the shower, and he pressed her against the wall as the warm water cascaded over their bodies. She watched in the mirror as his long hard cock slid in and out of her pussy. She pushed him down to the floor, making him eat her out until she came over and over, crying out with ecstasy He performed like a machine, and she was pleased.

There were many more nights like this, and impromptu daytime meetings as well. She would text him and he would come running. She couldn’t recall when things changed, but she had not texted him for a few days, and suddenly she got a message from him, “where are you?”, followed by, “I miss you.” She cringed. She thought the rules had been clear, but obviously, someone had gotten attached.

The neediness progressed, and as it did, she knew it was time to end this situation. She knew just what she would have to do. “Come meet me at my place, 8 pm, tomorrow.” He responded immediately, “Can’t wait!” I bet, she thought to herself, rolling her eyes. With that, she walked into her all-white boudoir and started sorting through her lingerie drawers. Silky slips, bras, and teddies were tossed on the bed. She dug deeper and pulled out a few pairs of panties. Pink silk, red, black lace. All these panties, that she never wore. What a shame. At least she would make use of them tonite.
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FEMALE DOMINATION IN ANCIENT TIMES AND THE PRESENT

Upon first entering the world of female domination, we are driven by tabooed instincts – so why are we surprised to discover that during ancient times, women were worshipped religiously? Were they worshipped as “sex objects”? On the contrary, women were worshipped through means and meanings. Perhaps a clue for Western civilization that is familiar, is the name: Kama Sutra, and few dare to read up on it. Having such a book on one’s coffee table… is equivalent to leaving a dildo on the bed except that Kama Sutra is not given the credit it deserves in Western society...

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BDSM TOYS TO DOMINATE YOUR SUBMALE

What do you really need to dominate a man, besides a willing submale?  This is a short piece about BDSM toys needed to do just that. Sure, it is possible to dominate your pussy slave without anything at all, but most people agree it’s more fun with ‘ BDSM toys’.

Some of you reading this article are toy mavens – the sort of women who have a storage locker full of every conceivable device that can subjugate a man and some of you ‘travel light’. That is to say, all your playthings fit in a shoe box with plenty of room to spare.

This is an opinion poll and requires your input – your participation – which you can do as a comment to the article. Just type in the device number of your 5 favorite subjugation devices. Below is a list of 30 bondage devices, ‘ BDSM toys’, equipment, and general paraphernalia which are commonly used to subdue a man’s mind and/or body.
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I am Mistress Lang an exceptionally exquisite, elegant and sophisticated Dominatrix. I am the elite Mistress of domination and feminisation. I find myself naturally dominant with a flair and passion for dominating, degrading and feminising men by many ways and means.

Am I evil, yes. Do I care, no. Do they like it, absolutely yes. They adore my evil mind.

A BDSM PUNISHMENT

This is a true event of serving a Dominant Woman I met on femdom.dating. I was instructed to come to Ms. Lucy’s apartment at 4:30 pm and not a second later. There I was to clean her apartment and serve her wine as she relaxed and read. I was very excited to see and obey Her, as it is my nature to obey and serve Dominant Women. I fantasized about worshipping and kissing Her feet as I was on the long drive from work to Her apartment. As I was on my way driving, Ms. Lucy instructed me via text to bring Her a specific type of water in a certain size of containers only available at one store. She told me that She still expected me to be at Her apartment at 4:30 pm and there would be no excuses for being late. Quickly realized this would require me to quickly find the store and purchase the water; so I put the address in my phone to know where to go without wasting any time. While parking I could feel myself getting excited as I was doing a task to please a superior Woman. My cock got hard as I ran through the parking lot and then through the store, I so needed to make sure I wouldn’t be late. Finally, I got the water and as excited as I was my cock started rubbing my pants while I was driving to Her. As I was getting closer to Her apartment, I received another text from Her instructing me to get $5 in quarters so I could do Her laundry. Again she reiterated that I could not be late for any reason...
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how to find a BDSM partner?

Through the earlier posts we've learned whether you are BDSM, what role or roles we might enjoy and how to stay safe when exploring BDSM play. So it makes sense that you now want to know how to find someone to experiment with and maybe have a relationship with!

No matter what sort of person you are looking for, playing the dating game is difficult. Some of you have dated before or been in relationships where you know this to be the case. It's a lot of work. Your ideal partner isn't just going to fall out of the sky! (Although, I really wish it were that easy.) It is an even more difficult task to find someone who is into similar BDSM or D/s activities as you - especially since it's not something you share openly.

It's hidden and secret. And the people who are looking for you? Don't know how to find you either. Casual Playmates Let's say you want to explore a playful, perhaps sexual relationship with D/s or BDSM aspects to it. So, you are looking for a casual playmate. These sorts of relationships can be anything from a trusted person within the community that you play with at public parties, or someone that's a Friend with Benefits and you play in private.
It can also be anything that neither of you are looking for long-term right now. Looking for partners in this situation might be easiest on casual dating sites. Make sure you remember your safety tips and don't meet someone somewhere private until you've felt safe with them in public and have safecalls, safewords and other safety measures in place. Trust is built over time, and until then you should have emergency lines. Another avenue for casual play partners is the local and not so local BDSM community. If you are a part of the community you can find people to play with and that the leaders of the community trust or that have a good reputation. A lot of play happens between strangers at a play party, so even if you don't attend regularly, try to get to the parties to meet people. Regional and National events are also good places to meet people and possibly hook up.

 Long Term Relationships A lot of what I covered with casual relationships can apply to long-term ones too. People looking for lasting, lifetime relationships mingle in the same places as casual players. So don't forget to go where the people are that have common interests. In this age of online dating, the dating site like Slave Selection is a place you will find people with FEMDOM BDSM or D/s interest. It may not be quite so obvious and you will probably have to weed through more people who quite obviously don't fit into what you are looking for but it is still possible to find someone who you connect with on all levels and make that lifetime commitment.

 Since what we do behind closed doors is generally not talked about in casual conversation, don't be surprised when the man you met at the garage sale or the lady sitting next to you at church that you asked out on a date turns out to have some kinky interest. People interested in BDSM are everywhere. It will probably require you to be a bit more open with people as you date and explore relationships as to what you are looking for but it isn't an impossible feat. The world is full of people with happy, healthy BDSM and D/s relationships.